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  1. anonmember

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    I am proud to announce that I like watching and masturbating to gay porn, straight porn, lesbian porn, and threesome porn (basically all kinds of porn, which should come as no surprise because I'm bisexual). Do any of you guys like watching porn and if so, what kinds of porn do you like to watch? Also, do any of you guys masturbate while you watch it like I do? You guys don't have to answer if you don't want to. I understand this can be pretty personal, so only answer if you're comfortable.
     
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    I feel like a pretty decent majority of people masturbate while watching porn. That being said, the majority of what I watch is solo videos of men. When I do watch porn that isnt solo, its normally amatuer gay porn because it feels more genuine than professional porn even if it isnt actually much more genuine.
     
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    You can either say you do watch porn, or lie.
    I do watch it (but don't pleasure myself to it, nope), mainly because I think there is much to learn in there, and I don't want any surprises later in life. *shrug*. I don't see it as 'the' standard though, it can be pretty damaging.
    As kibou97 said, I like watching the amateur ones because they are the only ones that actually feel genuine. But nowadays I've cut off on porn use and have focused more on my own fantasies instead. Those stuff gets addicting - constant delivery of dopamine, whenever...
     
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    I actually don't watch porn. I tried it and it really grossed me out. I didn't like the scenarios of the look of the actresses and I hated the sex itself. The sounds, the graphic view, it really kind of disgusted me. Even the oral sex scenes made me want to puke. I tried it because some people like porn. I am not one of them. I dont even like reading sex scenes a lot, sometimes I just skip them. Other times I go through a book looking for them ,it depends on my mood. I don't masturbate to anything. My own brain gets enough ideas.
     
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    Like becKEY0011 said, either you watch porn or your lying. Despite being bisexual I mainly watch gay porn, only because I feel most of the actresses in straight and lesbian porn overdo it to the point that it takes away the enjoyment; the moans are so fake. To me a lot of gay porn seems to be portrayed more authentically. And even though it's also fake, it's more subtle about it.

    I will only watch straight porn if it's fetish-related.
     
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    When I watch porn, it triggers a weird thought which makes me less interested in porn. If the actors or people on porn look nice and decent, I think to myself why they were doing that. I’m not saying they were wrong but I just feel bad about that.
     
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    I like still pictures of one guy in a compromising position. That way I can see everything and still let my imagination fill in the blanks.
     
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    Is it weird that I'm a female and I've always identified myself as heterosexual but find myself enjoying gay men/bi men porn than straight porn. I also enjoy BoyxBoy/MenxMen stories more. Now I'm confused.
     
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    Loads of heterosexual women I know are all more or less into the "boys love" genre of porn, fanfiction, anime and stuff. Some people (example, me) don't get its appeal even though I like guys too. It's more of a personal preference in what type of entertainment you like, rather than a foolproof method in figuring out your sexuality.
     
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    I watched a lot of porn. There was a time i watched and masturbated to porn almost daily.
    Now consume pornography maybe 2-3 times a week. And yes, i masturbate to it. I make the assumption, that it blurred my sexuality. I was for a long time a homophobic "straight" man. So i watched (still do) transgender porn. I thought... "it's not men, so it is not gay. So I AM not gay". But now i understand, that i needed to see analsex and penises... because i like penises... because i am probably gay... I needed a long time to realize that. And it still turns me on. But i don't want to consume it too much. I don't want a "blurred vision of my sexuality. I want to "see clear".
    So YES to porn, but with CARE and MODERATION (at least for me)

    (With that said, i don't want to offend transgender people. I don't think that they are "blurry", bizarre or whatever. My vision on it was blurry. I think they are beautiful. Otherwise i wouldn't watch this kind of porn :slight_smile:.)
     
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    Hmm .. Not just the entertainment part but the feeling of wanting to have or experience that. I'm currently in a heterosexual relationship but I have this urge to do things to him (pegging) - and I did try to do it to him - that isn't normal for straight couples. I also don't get that same level of excitement in watching straight porn as I would with gay porn. I also find myself attracted to gays/bi that are on the masculine side.
     
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    I love gay porn! Big muscled studs, preferably with lots of body hair.

    I don't like too many close ups in my porn films. For example, I don't want to watch a guy's ass hole being licked or fucked for 5 minutes. It's boring. I like seeing long shots so I can view their whole bodies and watch their muscles rippling and tensing whilst being pleasured and fucked.
     
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    I don't think that's necessarily true, many straight couples do it, but men are mostly unwilling to do it so you don't hear much about straight couples pegging. What I get from your reply is that you like being in the dominant side, is it?
     
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    Not really. I'm actually more on the sub side. My boyfriend is more dom. But there's a time when I have this urge to peg him. Haven't really done it yet since he's not comfortable with it. But he let's me finger his hole sometimes but he's really really uncomfortable letting me do it.
     
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    Hmm. So even though I identify as gay, I actually still find some straight open arousing -- I find watching a woman giving head or bring penetrated by a guy really hot, *and* I identify with the woman while watching it, not the guy.

    (Even when I identifed as bisexual, though, lesbian porn did absolutely nothing for me.)

    I've not watched an awful lot of man on man porn, but I have noticed a lot of the guys look bored.
     
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    To be honest, I find it all rather samey and quite boring. I'd rather do it myself than watch two random people doing it, and when that's not possible, my imagination is better than any porno.
     
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    Normally I stead of porn I just find a picture or pictures of a hot guy and imagine them. Most porn is not that great imo. Especially the free stuff. However there is an endless supply of beautiful male models...
     
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    I have hardly watched porn in my life, but don't have any issue with people that do (it just isn't my thing.) When I have watched it, I only watch lesbian porn and I prefer things that seem to be more realistic (which can be very hard to find.) I have a very vivid imagination, so maybe that is why I have never found porn all that interesting or necessary.
     
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    It's like eating junk food: satisfies immediate needs, but end up feeling disgusting afterward (also bad for your health in the long-term).
     
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    I love gay porn as well, but I prefer skinny guys over muscular guys. I also really love male masturbation videos as well, especially ones with a good cumshot.

    As far as women in porn go, I really love pregnant porn. I've long been attracted to pregnant women and I love seeing them naked, especially solo.