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Want to energize your coming out process?

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by brainwashed, Jun 17, 2020.

  1. brainwashed

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    Want to energize your coming out process? Tell someone you've known for a long time your gay. The "force" holding you back is colorless, odorless and secretive as hell, but boy is it ever powerful and has many resulting effects.
     
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    Vulnerability, the key to releasing our embedded shame. In return we develop confidence, self esteem, self worth, self respect and can love whom we are!
     
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    Coming out to a friend one knows will be supportive is always a good start. That's how I first came out. It gave me the courage to tell my family, and other friends. After that, the ball just kept rolling.
     
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    I completely agree with this - coming out is a process not a single event. Choose someone you can trust and dip your toe in the waters of coming out. With each conversation it will embolden you for the next.