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Discussion in 'Anonymous Support and Advice' started by Anonymous, Aug 31, 2008.

  1. Anonymous

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    work keep asking me how women have sex.
    how wud u say uve lost ur virginity if ur a lesbian?
     
  2. Anonymous

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    oh they know what women do when they have sex, they just want you to spell it out to them, so they get a kick out of it probably. tell them to google it.
     
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    "How do lesbians have sex?"
    "As often as possible."

    Lex
     
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    :roflmao:

    Another one of these witty quotes of yours added to my unwritten list of things to say in case someone asks :grin:
     
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    I think that you decide. I don't think there's a hard and fast rule. I think it's when you've gone that extra bit further, been that bit more intimate, and you're like "wow", and you feel as though you've lost it.
     
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    If you want to define it to yourself, you could think of it as "If I've touched another woman sexually (on the genitals) or been touched, to give pleasure, then that's sex". That's how I think of it.

    But if other people are making you feel demeaned or awkward by asking you what lesbian sex is, tell them to go fuck themselves. Seriously. You shouldn't have to deal with that kind of bullshit.

    Sorry, those kind of people just make me really angry.
     
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    >>>But if other people are making you feel demeaned or awkward by asking you what lesbian sex is, tell them to go fuck themselves.

    Then they won't be virgins, either. :grin:

    Lex
     
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    You have such a way of putting things! :roflmao:

    And I totally agree with you!
     
  9. Anonymous

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    well first of all, if you keep getting asked theese questions and it makes you uncomfortable, tell them, if they don't stop, then it becomes sexual harassment and I would remind them of that, it is theior fault and it usually gets a lawsuit to get theese kinds of people to stop. You can always tell if a company has been sued by how well they treat you, if your training includes sexual harrasment and anti-discriminatory subjects, you know it took a lawsuit to get them to do the right thing and do something to stop that behavion, I would just tell them to stop, if they don't remind them that their behavior is illegal and I would let your boss know as well
     
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    tell them to mind their own business