I had a mishap online with someone in another online LGBT community forum that led to me being shut down and shut out completely of that group, and I think it was a knee-jerk reaction. I'm really annoyed about it, but ultimately, good riddance! Maybe they're right and it was my fault, I don't really want to clue you guys/gals into the details, but it's just made me realize how marginalized the non-binary community really is. Because we don't fit in with male or female, it doesn't matter if the community is lesbian, gay, or cis. There's always someone who doesn't "get" us (and sometimes that person is a moderator. No offense to the EC mods, you have been pretty chill with me getting pretty deep and arguably controversial conversations going on EC, and I really appreciate it, believe me, I do). Online is one of the few places we can find each other and help each other through tough times, you know? It hurts a bit to get a bit of that safety net taken away by someone you thought could help you or understand you.