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Unwanted Erections

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by sonic1337111, Jun 25, 2018.

  1. sonic1337111

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    At times throughout the day I get unwanted erections that won't go away although it mostly happenes during either of these:

    1: Waiting for an interview for something
    2: About to hand in coursework
    3: Minding my own business (e.g Watching TV or playing Video Games)
    4: Whenever I wake up (Either from a nap or a full on sleep (Although i'm pretty sure that's Morningwood)

    Although part of me thinks it has something to do with nerves, i'm wondering how to prevent them and if it's even possible to prevent the erections.
     
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    The only one that happens to me is #4. I get unwanted boners but it's b/c my mind will wander for a second or I'll think of someone or something for a second and next thing you know .....
     
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    Yep, if you are a teenager this just part of the fun of puberty.

    There are plenty of youtube videos out there to teach tricks on how to hide the boner because that's truly all you can do.

    Things that you can do:
    • Wear underwear that is a little more constricting
    • Carry a book, messenger back bag, etc that you can put in front of your pants
    • If it reaches, put your boner pointing up and inside the waistband
    • Jack off more often
    It goes away as you get older and they stop happening as often and as fast.

    I remember a time that I couldn't be naked without being hard. Now I can be laying down naked with 2 guys next to me and I can be completely soft. The human body is weird. Welcome :slight_smile:
     
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    Omg lmao about your book comment. That's what I did in high school then I noticed lots of guys walking around school with books or backpacks in front of them. Lol
     
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    All part of growing up... This too shall pass. and it's NORMAL!
     
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    If you make a tight fist and flex your muscles it will make the erection go away very quickly.
    Having random boners is totally normal for any healthy guy.
     
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    Same here and also get a boner when watching TV, listening to music or minding my own business (#3)
     
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    Well I never got mine by surprise in public, only at home. The ones in places like school were because of something sexual I'd heard, imagined or seen. And that happened a lot to me as a teenage boy. I tried everything that the internet recommended- Don't think dirty (easier said than done), go for a jog (can't do that in the middle of class) and all of the hiding with books, pockets, etc. All that just made it worse because it attracted the attention of my equally perverted classmates and somehow prolonged my erection (I'm worried I have the makings of an exhibitionist).
    What worked for me ultimately was changing underwear- there was this specific type of Jockey boxer briefs that hid it perfectly if I adjusted my penis towards one side. You need to find one that works so it's not too tight and uncomfortable but also not too airy to hide anything.
     
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    I was probably not as discreet about this as I should have been in high school - everyone else wanted to hide it, I was kinda the opposite and made no effort to cover it a lot of the time unless it was around a parent/teacher. I figured why hide something that could be attractive to girls and might make them want to see more (thought I was straight).

    Wearing jeans made it less noticeable though, mainly because nearly everyone looks like they have one wearing jeans so no one could tell whether you really did or not.
     
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    Is there certain classes you get an erection or do you just get them randomly? I wear jeans at work as to try to hide that I'm having an erection.
     
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    It seemed to be linked to the time of day for some reason. It would happen the most at like 10 Am. Also of course during classes like biology and physical education where there would be subjects like reproduction and personal hygiene discussed which would bring those thoughts up. Playing sports would cause it also from the adrenaline and rubbing up against other people.
     
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    The way I see it, it's only a problem if someone else notices.