How does somebody know whether they're trans or fluid? It can be tough to know personal identity. As experienced as a male @ birth: 1. I don't like having facial hair, and I like keeping my hair long. 2. I have fantasized about wearing dresses and women's clothing and wish I could be accepted like that more 3. I wish my face looked more feminine 4. I have been curious about not having testicles, more indifferent about the penis. 5. I don't usually mind when someone uses he/him pronouns, though occassionally I have 6. The idea of being a woman 24/7 is intimidating. Perhaps more so due to societal expectations, but still. 7. I am sexually attracted to women pretty much exclusively, and wish more would embrace the feminine side.