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  1. Jack2009

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    There's this old guy who is a multi millionare, and he's fat and balding. He's interested in me... But should I go into a relationship with him, he wants to take me to Paris next week.

    I feel like a golddigger since if I go with him it be just for the riches since he looks gross. So I'm not into at all for his looks which is what trully matters.
     
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    Hell yeah.
     
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    Yeah I thought so too

    This isn't even a joke thread just sounds like lala land right now for me.
     
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    LMAO. That just made my day.

    This is kind of funny. I could never do something like that, just because I'm not all that interested in money. I don't see this making you happy either if you think he's gross. So why would you do it? For the trips with someone you find repulsive and objectifies you to a sexual object? Maybe it's just me, but I don't think it's worth the money.
     
    #4 haelmarie, Oct 11, 2009
  5. Mysterons

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    Rumour has it personality counts as well :grin:

    We can talk for hours on end about how repulsive is the fact that both of you view each other as mere objects, but ultimately that's up to you and your moral standards.

    So putting the moral dilemma aside, have you thought of what could happen once you try to break up with him after getting involved in a relationship? He's older and richer, he has power over you. He looks like the kind of person that might get nasty once you try to dump him.
     
    #5 Mysterons, Oct 11, 2009
  6. Drizzt DoUrden

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    Really? Looks are what "truly matter?" Damn. Here I was thinking that being a decent person mattered, but really I should just concentrate on being a pretty face. *finds a mirror and practices sexy pout*
     
    #6 Drizzt DoUrden, Oct 11, 2009
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    How old are you?
     
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    I would, in a heartbeat.

    Sex is cheap. Paris costs a lot.
     
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    Bon Voyage.
     
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    i couldent do it, love is more important than money...
     
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    ^This. It may be fun while it lasts, but you obviously won't enjoy the sex as you don't seem to like how he looks and chances are that's how he's going to want reimbursement for the trip. There is no way I'd be able to do something like that if I didn't remotely like the guy to begin with.
     
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    Well I have nothing to compare the sex with since I'm a virgin.

    I didn't tell him that since we didn't even talk about it.
     
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    Lmfao. I like the way you think. =)
     
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    I couldn't do it. I'd only do it if he were attractive AND had a great personality. The money's cool and all...but yeah...not enough for me.
     
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    I'm going to date him.
     
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    Feel free to dig as deep as you feel like, but always leave yourself an escape route. If he decides he doesn't like you anymore while you're in Paris, can you get home?

    Lex
     
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    Make sure you take pics!
     
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    Yeah Lex is right. MAKE SURE you have a means to go back home just in case something happens. It is something extremely important.
     
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  19. backtothekitchen

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    Good. Start off slow. You don't want your first time to be with someone gross just because a few luxuries came in handy at the time. If the guy turns out to be a good match for you, and you really like him, then yeah, go nuts. But since you're obviously not the one-night-stand type, make sure you give it some time before you rush into anything. Be safe.
     
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    Hell yes ! You deserve it :grin:
     
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