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Thinking and Thinking

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by AshdeD32, Jul 10, 2018.

  1. AshdeD32

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    I keep thinking and thinking that I want to come out to a few people on my sports team because I feel like they could help me. This one girl I keep biting my tongue on if I want to tell her or not. She is cool with the lgbtq world and keeps saying stuff like she doesn't mind if she ends up with a girl or not. I don't know whether or not to tell her. Like I am personal about my love life. Well there isn't much of it. ;p
    What do you think I should do? I need sooo much advice!
     
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    AshdeD32.....It sounds like there's no real problem with telling her. She's already made it clear that she is okay with it! So go for it!
    .....David :gay_pride_flag:
     
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    Coming out for the first time is probably the most terrifying because you don't know how people will react but if you know that they're already cool with the community there really is no point in overthinking it, and it will feel way better having someone know and accept you and it makes it so much easier to tell other people as well. So what's holding you back?
     
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    I’d like to try it out on someone I just met who doesn’t know people I know. Just for practice and to see how it feels.
     
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    I know it's a little late, but I'm in the same situation as you and I think that because she is very accepting that you should confide in her. (The only difference between our situations is that the girl I want to tell is VERY straight and isn't that accepting.)