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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by WhiskeyDuck, Jul 29, 2016.

  1. WhiskeyDuck

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    My name is Brian...I'm gay.

    That's it, my story so far.

    That is the first time I've told anyone that, besides myself 3 or 4 years ago (but I think I've known inside for longer than that,but did not want to admit it).

    I'm 30 years old. I'm here because I'm just now becoming some what comfortable with being gay and I want to be fully comfortable so I can start coming out and live my life to its fullest.

    Also maybe make a friend or two along the way.

    My name is Brian, and I am gay.
     
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    Welcome to EC. :wave:
     
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    Welcome to EC! Everyone is friendly and caring on here so I'm sure you'll fit right in and make some friends! :slight_smile:
     
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    Brian i am in the same boat as you, just becoming comfortable accepting the fact that im gay, im seeing a psychologist it really helps :slight_smile:

    Welcome, im fairly new here myself
     
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    Hi Brian! I hope things are going well for you right now. :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to EC, Brian!
     
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    hey Brian. Super happy for you. i just came out to myself in the past year and to my two closest friends a few days ago. it feels good to be real with yourself and keep a strong front with the people you want in your life!
     
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    Hi and welcome!
    Loved the way you introduce yourself.. That's it! Its so simple to be happy.. So simple!

    I'm Susana, 40 years and i love my woman!

    Lets keep it simple!
     
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    Nice name ^^
     
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    Welcome to EC Brian and well done on telling us that you are gay. In one moment you have just come out to thousands of other EC members. :slight_smile:

    We are all on the same journey as you, or we have been there, so stick around, talk to us and ask for advice when you need it. You can do this and we'll be happy to help.
     
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    Welcome to the forum! :slight_smile:
     
  12. WhiskeyDuck

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    I just wanted to say thank you all for all the kind and supportive replies so far. I wish I would have gotten around to writing this sooner to tell you I genuinely appreciate it.

    I know I had nothing to fear about putting out on this site, but I won't lie, I still had a knot in my stomach finally admitting it to any one that might read it.

    I feel like this moment in my life has been long overdue, and I'm glad that I decided to start it here.

    Again, I do genuinely, sincerely appreciate every welcoming and friendly reply to this. From the bottom of my heart, thank you all.
     
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    Welcome , Hey :smilewave And I think you will find lots of people to help here!
     
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