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The "do I pass" thread

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Just Jess, Apr 16, 2014.

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    visible, yes. and yes you pass, they suit you.
     
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    pass or no? no make up just one of my two wigs.
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    I hate the "Peppermint Patty" hair, but I'm leaving it until it grows out a bit more. But that's the full package hanging out at Target.
     
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    nice, love it. you're really cute, and your confidence is fantastic
     
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    Awwww thanks! You're not so bad yourself. :wink:
     
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    With this avatar, how do I look?
     
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    Looks as though my pic is no longer showing... odd.
     
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    As someone who doesn't want to try to "pass", it gives me a lot of encouragement just to see all your transitions. i was having a bad trans day but now I feel less alone somehow.
     
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    Hey!
    So, I've been wanting to transition since I was 11 (so 12 years) and I found out such a thing were possible, but I haven't been able to fully start because of money/being unsure whether I'd be able to pass. I've started buying more feminine clothing to try and achieve a more androgynous look, but still really worried that the damage is done and I look too masculine. I just wanted your opinion on whether I'd be able to pass in the future if I grew out my hair, used makeup and got HRT. Also, any tips on how to soften my features :grin:

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    I think you would pass :slight_smile: And, with the right makeup, you would look very feminine even know. Imo.

    I don't know many tips, but I know that lipgloss (instead of mat lipstick) makes lips look larger and softer.
     
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    You pass really well- it’s encouraging to me because I’ve always been told that trans guys can’t pass with round/ large glasses like mine but you pull it off so well you prove that theory wrong lol
     
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    hey all, so ive been on HRT since march 2017. and out since april of this year. so what do you think? passing? self confidence is something me and my therapist are working on. this was like a week and a half ago. please excuse my messy porch haha. the house is clean but heavily lived in. 20180810_091801[1].jpg
     
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    The site says it's a deleted album :/

    You used to pass before, you pass even after xD
     
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    Thank you hun.
     
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    So how about an updated picture of me? Too bad you're getting one anyway. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:


    I literally just got out of Target, getting my hormones. No makeup even, I find I don't even bother most days anymore, sometimes I still like to throw on at least some eyeliner and concealer though, and when I get a job I'll be wearing it to work most likely.

    I have a full body shot, but I'm not sure it's appropriate because I'm holding a firearm, though not in a threatening manor, I'm literally just holding it to my side along with a stuffed puppy in my other hand.... if someone could weigh in on if that one is okay, that'd be great and I'd love to share. :wink:
     
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    Pre-everything ftm. Do I pass, and if so, how old do I look?
     

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    Yeah dude, I think you pass. As for age, if I were guessing, I'd say you're maybe 13-14ish.