i know there are a lot of unwritten rules when you meet someone you like. personally i am not the kinda guy that does too much too soon and i hate when people do that to me, but i do show interest. if i had a great date, i will text and say i had a great time with them and ask them out again. if i think they are attractive, i let them know. i do not go on and on about it, i just say it. but i find that whenever i do thsi and do not play hard to get, guys lose interest in me because my feelings are not that hidden. i do not want to play the games, because i really want someone that also lets me knwo how they think about me but i also do not want to be alone. so should i play the games?