Yeah, I know some parts can be hard. But, what would you say some of the benefits are? Personally: 1) Being able to acknowledge the pros in both men and women and having the freedom to like and be with either. 2) Knowing what attracts you to the same sex so you can use that to attract the opposite sex lol. Although as guys we'll never know all of the secrets of girls - we can at least know what draws our attention and use that. 3) You see the world in gray rather than black and white.