Hi, I signed up to this website in 2015 and just want to say thanks for how much it has helped and how far I've come. Haven't signed on since 2019. For anyone new here I just want to say it will all make sense in time. Be patient. I never thought in a million years I'd finally fit into myself and accept myself, but I have, and so will you. It's a journey, a process. I started out really questioning everything and was very afraid, it was terrifying. I went through a lot and self harm. I was never going to tell a single soul I liked women. I am very much at peace with myself now, I am a lesbian and very comfortable with that. I am not afraid and look forward to a beautiful future with a woman. I still have some hurdles, but my weight feels so much lighter. I can breathe a lot better and I have more love for myself. A lot of it was thanks to the people here. I had no one to talk to. Thoughts burdening my mind, eating me alive. I was so lost, but felt safe and comfortable to come here with any question weighing heavy on me. No matter how "dumb" the question felt there was always someone here who was kind and helpful and understood. The cliché is true "It gets better", it does. A lot of the "secrets to life are hidden under the word cliché " Thanks, this is probably my last post here.