I am a 33 year old (woman) and have been with my (male) partner for 14 years. I’ve always identified as bisexual. Before my husband I dated women nearly exclusively. since then we’ve had 3 children. We are seemingly happy and healthy but I’m struggling. I’m constantly thinking of women and how I miss the gentle stubble free kisses, the emotional connection I felt with them, etc. As time goes on I’m terrified I might be lesbian, not bi. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to wreck a relationship that’s nearly half my life for a “what if” scenario. I’m so lost and confused.