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String of questioning your sexuality?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by logansarah, Jul 31, 2016.

  1. logansarah

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    How many of you have gone through a string of questioning your sexuality? My string was asexual, bisexual, pansexual, and now I'm pretty sure I'm lesbian.
     
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    I went from bisexual, to pansexual, to lesbian.
     
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    I went through a phase where I convinced myself that I was bisexual even though I knew that I wasn't.
     
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    Yep

    Asexual, Transgendered, Bisexual, Asexual, Bisexual, Gay, Asexual, Gay

    *sigh* still inbetween Gay and Asexual atm
     
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    I keep going back and forth between being straight and being bisexual and even being lesbian.
     
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    One thing i've always known for sure is im not straight, but even then when i was bisexual i would think if end up with a woman i will just not even deal with the fact that im attracted to men
     
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    I went from asexual to gay to bisexual to gay to bisexual to gay to fuck it xD

    Yeah, one could say that I'm still questioning my sexuality.
     
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    Yeah. Straight but attracted to girls, gay, bisexual, asexual, .....
     
  9. Embi

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    Definitely, I was like: straight, lesbian, straight, lesbian, ..., straight, BISEXUAL, now also thinking poly or pan, but I am happy with identifying as bi.
     
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    I went from straight to bisexual to lesbian. in high school when I was in denial, I used to tell people I was as straight as an arrow (lol I have no idea what that meant because arrows aren't necessarily straight)
     
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    Straight, Bisexual, Lesbian, Pansexual, Straight, Lesbian.. To currently Bisexual..
     
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    It's not really questioning, it's fluidity. I have moved around the Kinsey scale sexually and romantically. As of now, I'm biromantic and asexual.
     
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    I've always considered myself asexual. I remember wondering why I had no sexual interests then someone told me I was probably asexual.
     
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    Straight -> Bi -> Asexual -> Gay -> Asexual -> Gay -> Gynephilic

    Something like that.
     
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    Age 7-13 (didn't know about labels) liked girls in general - one specifically
    Aged 13 (wasn't thinking about labels) found one boy attractive - liked girls in general
    Age 15 (wasn't thinking about labels) found a different boy attractive - liked girls in general
    Age 17 gynephilic (liking women only)
    Age 17 Bisexual

    I ignored the two boys I liked significance (in terms of sexuality) for a while because the first was too old for me and was embarrassing (won't get into it) and the other wasn't nice in terms of personality.

    I didn't think I ever ''questioned'' it, but merely realized who I liked and changed the label accordingly.
     
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    gay to straight to bisexual to pansexual now im goddamn lost but dont care anymore, pan works for me i guess
     
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    I feel better knowing that im not the only one that's been through this

    can i ask does it get you guys feeling sad about it? or like a freak? i mean not knowing for sure?
     
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    Around the age of probably 10 or 11 to 14 I felt feelings toward other boys. After finally kind of acting on it with a friend and both of us feeling guilty and ashamed, I proceeded to spend ~the next decade in the closet and tried to be straight, including dating a few girls that I just never felt strongly toward. Initially I thought I might be bi around 23 or so, after a year or so I knew I was gay.
     
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    Straight, then just sort of worried, bi, lesbian, bi, labelless, lesbian?... still unsure.
     
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    Can I do for both gender 'cause I questioned them both at the same time.

    Straight boy---Maybe bisexual boy---I have no clue boy---Maybe trans lesbian---Nonbinary straight boy---Genderfluid and attracted to girls---Trans lesbian
     
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