Straight guys cuddling???

So I came across this site and a few stories similar to mine, so I decided to include mine here as well. I like to be detailed so bear with me. Please, let me know what you guys think as to why this guy would allow this to happen between us. He continues to say that he would not do anything with another guy, but I doubt it.
I got a promotion about 7 months ago and when I did I ended up working with this good looking guy, so he became my subordinate. He was very reserved as I am but like me likes to play around. To try to cut the story short everything started when one day he told me in Spanish “vos me chiveas.” That I found that meant that I embarrassed him, in a blushing type of way. It made me think why. But I made nothing of it. He was going through some things with his ex-girlfriend and baby’s mother at the time so we would go out sometimes and have a drink and we would talk about that and I would tell him that he should fight for them and should do some changes so that he could get her back. Everything was good. It was good until December when he started hanging out with my friends and we would see each other a lot more.
Well, it all began when we would lay down to watch a movie together at a friend’s house since that was the spot for everybody to hang out at. I put my leg over his and he didn’t mind. He even seemed to hug my leg with his, but I took it as him playing around. Things began escalating and sometimes when we were too drunk instead of going home we would just stay there. We would usually sleep next to each other, mainly because he would joke around and say “I want to sleep next to xxxx” Well I would put my leg over his and he wouldn’t mind.
One time we were laying next to each other but I was a little up more and his elbow was right by my hip. He was using his phone and he put his elbow on my hip and his elbow ended up hitting the tip of my penis. I didn’t move and he didn’t say anything. He kept it there for a moment until he moved his arm and ended up putting his hand towards my armpit putting his arm over my chest. I still didn’t move. Then he put his hand back on my hip in the same position. When we were leaving, he actually tapped my penis about a good 5 times with his elbow. I took advantage of that and threw my leg over his chest putting my penis on his side. He didn’t say anything about that.
On another occasion we were so drunk and we fell asleep. I decided to go for it a little more and I ended up putting my hand on his butt and somehow I ended up putting my hand inside his pants over his underwear. He was asleep, or so I think, but I am not sure as on other occasions he pretended to be asleep. Anyways, I ended up putting my hand inside his underwear and kept it there for a moment until he said “WTF foo, don’t be gay.” So I took my hand out. Later on I ended up with my hand inside his pants by his boxers but not touching his privates. He again said “don’t be gay foo.” As soon as he woke up he made a comment that I was trying to put his pants down, but at no time did he tell anybody that I had put my hand in his pants or in his underwear. All our friends laughed but didn’t think anything of it.
Although from that time on they started teasing us everytime they saw us together saying things like “oh oh, xxxx and yyyy are getting close already,” and bust out laughing. We had a few incidents like that. But there were two other times that really threw me off. They were the last few times me and him hung out in that way.
We had an accident together and we were in much pain. Together we were going to the doctor’s office and doing everything. Well, I was in so much pain and it was hot that I took off my shirt while I was waiting for my friend and taking a nap. I ended up waking up because he started playing with the hairs on my stomach and putting his finger in my belly button. I think that that is way beyond playing around. He was using the phone to talk to his ex-girlfriend and suddenly I felt him put his elbow on my chest. Not only on my chest but it felt like he moved it as well in order to place it in the way he wanted. Later on, once I woke up, I moved up further up on the bed on purpose and his elbow ended up by my crotch again. He placed his elbow again by my penis but didn’t feel anything and I felt him adjust his elbow until he ended up touching the tip of my penis with his elbow. I stayed there until some other people showed up and I didn’t want them to see that. Later on he was laying down and I put my legs completely across his stomach but then moved them closer to his crotch area and he started “falling asleep.” Then I placed them on his legs and moved my feet up towards his crotch but never touched his private areas with them.
Then there was one more time when we hung out, where my other friend was going to have sex with his girlfriend so I kicked everybody out of the bed. Three of us went to the couch and I made sure me and him were laying next to each other. He obviously knew I did it on purpose as well. I turned to my side and my penis was touching his knee and he ended up raising his leg. So I put my leg under his. He didn’t mind it. Later on, somehow my foot ended up by his crotch on top of his penis and when he moved, I just moved my foot a little. All he did was throw his leg over mine so that my leg was in between his. His leg ended up touching my penis and he didn’t move. I even moved a little closer and he knew I did it so that my penis would be touching his leg more. I was semi hard. Later on, my alarm went off and while I was looking for my phone without moving his legs I noticed that his eyes kind of opened which let me know he was aware of everything that was going on. I ended up moving to a position where I had my legs wide open. I ended up throwing his leg in between mine and he didn’t mind. He kept his leg there right on top of my penis. When he woke up he grabbed his phone and moved but didn’t say anything. Later on in the day I ended up laying behind him and placed my penis right on his shoulder. He knew it was my penis as I am not small and he could feel me even if I am not hard. He even moved his hand over his shoulder as if to see what was going on and he felt my penis but he didn’t move and didn’t say anything.
Well we keep it like that and never talk about it. NEVER. Although I have caught him staring at my crotch many times.
I missed a lot as well. Like he would text me telling me good morning. He would randomly text me what he was doing. One time I actually grabbed his penis and he just grabbed my hand and moved it and didn’t allow it but didn’t say anything to me or anybody else.
Now that he is back with his girlfriend he rarely texts me back and we have not had the chance to hang out like we did before.
I really do not want to have sex with him but I liked that interaction we had.
Do you guys think he is bicurious for allowing all this to happen? Or why would he allow for things to go this far. How would you guys go about it in order to keep a sort of relationship going.
I must be frank, it bothers me that he does not put as much attention to me as he did before but I don’t know if its because I’m jealous of his girlfriend because she has him or if its just because I feel like I lost my friend.

 

Yeah I think on my end I am...what do you think about him placing his elbow right on my penis. Do you think he is bi as well?

 

Ive gotten to the point where I think I am. And it bothers me to think that this guy is as well but doesnt want to admit it. We never ever talk about anything we do.

 

Makes sense...although he does continue to "rekindle" as when we're at work he'll go and rub against me or push his elbow or shoulder against, my private area and he is constantly looking at my crotch. I did stop trying to even chat with him and I hate it that randomly he'll send blushing faces or faces with a kiss. So I right now I am on vacations and im trying to completely avoid him.

And I do agree with you about being curious but not about the instigating as the only reason why I went this far was because he started playing with his shoulder on my penis. And he would adjust his elbow until he felt the tip of it.

But yeah I'm just going to leave it alone and when he does something at work I'm just going to ask him to stop.