Well I'm finally taking steps to get out more into the LGBTQ+ Community, MY Community, so here I am.. I might be coming to terms with both my Sexuality and Gender Identity a bit later in life, I'm in my 30's but a lot of religious guilt and other issues kept me from being true to myself..... I was a boy once.... Then I came out as Non-Binary but now I identify as a Non-Binary Pansexual Transwoman. My Pronouns are They/Them/She/Her and I'm still the same old Geek I always was, just less self-hating. So hello there!
Hello and welcome to EC! There are a lot of us here that have become more accepting of our true selves later in life. We even have our own sub-forum for that, "LGBT Later in Life" Peace!
Welcome to EC! I'm kind of a geek myself, and a bi trans guy (my pronouns are he/him). I've been there with the self hating thing and still struggle with it at times- I'm sorry that you've had to deal with that, but I'm glad to hear it's getting better. I hope you enjoy it here.
Wow. Thank you everyone for the welcome! I'm still figuring out myself but this place will certainly help. Thank you again!
Jaye.....Hello and a great big LGBTQIA+ welcome to Empty Closets! I can remember the first post that I made on EC. I was desperate for help and I got the help that night that I so needed. I hope that we can help you in the same way that I received help. The most important thing to remember about Empty Closets is that we do care about you! We're very glad that you found us here on EC and hope that we can answer questions, give you support and provide a place to vent (as long as it's not violent!) when that becomes necessary! *****There are 18 different sub-forums here that you can check out and join in the conversations or start your own thread/conversation. In particular you may want to check out the forum that is titled "Gender Identity and Expression”, there are people there who have dealt with some of the same kind of issues that could be challenging you. *****When you have made at least 10 posts on various threads you will be able to post messages on a member's Profile Page. Just click on a member's Avatar Picture and then click on "Profile Page" in the dialogue box that pops up. You'll then be on their Profile Page and there will be a box that says: "Write Something" When you have been on EC for a few weeks and have made at least 50 posts on various forums, you can apply for Full Membership. A Full Member can send Private Messages (PM) to other Full Members and share personal contact info. Right now you can only send a PM to a Staff Member as that is always possible. Here is a quote from the Full Membership information forum: *****To be eligible you must be a member of Empty Closets for a minimum of two weeks, and have a minimum of 50 posts. These posts must be across numerous forums (Fun & Games does not contribute to post count), and consistently posted across a minimum of two weeks. You wouldn't be eligible, for example, if you registered, had no activity for two weeks, and then returned to post 50 times on your 14th day of membership. *****Well, as I said, we're very glad you found us! If you have any questions at all, you can post a question on my Profile Page or send me a Private Message. .....David
Thank you for the warm welcomes everyone. To further introduce myself, I do hold a BA in Cinema Studies with a minor in humanities so I'm fairly well-versed in those fields.
