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Starting to let my inhibitions go

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by SGee, Dec 3, 2020.

  1. Contented

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    Blueplanets when I look back in hindsight ( which is always 20/20 of course) I see obvious signs I wasn’t straight. When I started to come to terms with my homosexuality I tried to convince myself I was bi. That lasted about 1 week before I came to the conclusion that I was gay plain and simple. It seems like a joke now but I spent a majority of my life so far pretending to everyone and myself I was straight. Three years ago my eyes were opened to the fact that there was no denying any longer I preferred men as emotional and sexual partners.Like you in my case I can say without reservations that intimacy with a man is so much better than with a woman. There is simply no comparison. I was never as aroused with a woman as I am with a man.
     
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    I've had a similar experience. Since teen years, always had this fleeting interest in guys, but as I grew older and more accepting of my sexuality, the desire became more intense and satisfying - especially sexually.
     
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    Hello SGee,
    It took me until my late 50’s to finally stop fighting my natural instincts. When I did stop the struggle, the world turned from black and white to colour.
    I enjoy being able to look at handsome men without feeling that self shame I had. I also love to flirt if I feel it is appropriate.
    I find it so much fun if the fellow I’m flirting with returns the compliment.
     
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