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So who's out but cant find a boyfriend ?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Evan, Aug 25, 2008.

  1. Evan

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    I always feel like it's cause I'm ugly. Am I that ugly ?
     
  2. Evan

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    Well I feel if I dont have a boyfriend then I'm alone. I get that gross lonely feeling and I just need someone to like hold, you know ?
     
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    i know EXACTLY how you're feeling. I am in the exact same position. I do think that you're a little young to be thinking about this too much. But i guarantee that you WILL get a bf in the future.
     
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    No way in hell you are ugly! You're pretty cute. :icon_bigg
     
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    I feel that it's harder for gay people to find a boyfriend/girlfriend. You never really know if someone is gay no matter how they act or look.

    It's easier for straight folk because you just look around for 5 mins and there are tons of the opposite sex.

    But for gay people you never can tell of any of them are gay.
     
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    Finding a same-sex attracted partner at your age is always going to be more difficult, simply due to the fact that many people arent comfortable with their sexuality yet. If you're in the closet as well, it's even harder!

    You'll find as you get older, you'll meet more and more gay people (and people you know will turn out to be gay :wink:).
     
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    Hi and welcome to EC! First off, you are not ugly. No one is. Sometimes it can take a while until we find the right person. You are only 16. As Micah indicated, as you get older you will meet more gay people, and you will find someone.

    If you feel lonely, try to make some new friends, join a club or a GLBT youth group. Getting to know new people, might help you to feel less lonely and who knows you might find a boyfriend somewhere down the road.
     
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    nooo >< defs not. same thing is happenin to me :frowning2:

    been single for 6 months since my last ex now
    and im pretty sure everyone at school thinks im sad

    and i kind of am
    im trying to move on
    but i cant find the right guy
    and everything i do i blame on my ex
    so i wouldnt say i miss her, i just miss having someone :\
     
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    I do, but I'm just chalking it up to the fact I rarely leave the house cause I have no life. Once I get a job and start getting more of a social life, It shouldn't be impossible XD
     
  10. Ty

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    Silly to think about things just now In my opinion. I'll just wait till university, or when I get a job :slight_smile: I still have 70 more years of living (I hope!), so that should be plenty of time for all that.

    Although it is annoying to see Stuuuuuuuu fondling Elise when im right there >..> Ah well.
     
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    Me. Wrong gender, same problem. I have the lovely combination of unattractiveness and a complete lack of social skills.
     
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    Me! Me! Seriously, where I am living, I sometimes think it's impossible.

    Roar! :tantrum:
     
  13. EthanS

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    [-_-'] u aint ugly... I cant find a bf either... mayb becoz i aint out ^_^
     
  14. Ty

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    Theres a whole 3,502,309 people in Connecticut ( 3,502,310 if i move there, which i might beee!). Im sure atleast one of them is gay :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    That would be him. :wink:

    :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I'm out to about ten people.
    Sometime, I don't like that fact. But sometimes, I like to think that it can help me.
    So far, it's not been so much of a useful tool, cause I'm one of those that are out (partially), and can't find a man. :[
    Poo on that.
     
  17. Nova713

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    I'm out enough to get a boyfriend, but living in a town that has no "alternative" scene my chances are greatly diminished.
     
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    *looks around*

    *sees pretty gay-acting guy in the mirror, but no boyfriend*
     
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    Hey=]

    Well yeh, lots of people have hit the nail on the head...

    There's time in the future for finding others, right now I'd focus on keeping your life going in a straight (no pun intended) line (or as straight as it can go=P) and just wait until you cross paths with Mr Right... which will happen one day=]

    I'm not really 'out' I mean, I don't lie, but I haven't told many people, so yeh, just keep going with yourself and if anything gets too much... well we're always here to listen=D
     
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    Me Nope But it the last Thing on my Mind I mean come on now I got College My career to take care of first once i get STABLE in LIFE ill start my hunt for a lover. but in the mean time ill keep my Gaydar on FULL ALERT

    (speaking of that supposedly there a hot blond blue eyes Joining My Crew at BJ's[Bo jangles u notty kids] that suppose to be gay" I heard 2 ppl say he looks gay" so im going to check him out wednesdday :grin: i hope for the best Isnt LUKE such a hot name)