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So me and my girlfriend just broke up...

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Stockings, Oct 31, 2021.

  1. Stockings

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    So me and my girlfriend just broke up :frowning2:.
    We been together for 6 years, but we just grow apart, and couldn't find the time to be a couple.
    We were in a long distance relationship, and didnt't live together and my girl, don't know anything about my Bisexual fantasy side: https://forum.emptyclosets.com/inde...o-struggling-to-find-out-my-sexuality.488181/

    I don't know why im writing this post, just needed to talk to someone. Maybe being single now, can give me at chance to try to find out my true sexual orintation, but that also super scary, don't know where to start :frowning2:
     
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    Sorry to hear about your breakup, regarding finding your true orientation I'd take it slow. Don't rush into anything :relaxed:

    I'm also scared shitless and don't know where to start so I do get it :unamused:
     
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    Sorry, that you broke up, but now you can figure things out slowly and meet new people and maybe even experiment. You will surely figure this out. Good luck.
     
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    The end of a relationship is never easy, even when it's totally amicable and agreed by both parties. We invest so much in a relationship and it takes time to adjust and reconnect with ourselves when it ends. It's only right that you should give yourself that time.

    When things settle you can start to find out more about your sexual orientation. Taking those first steps is always a bit scary, but the fundamentals of dating a member of the same sex are just the same as dating a member of the opposite sex. It's still about spending time together, doing things together, having laughs together and making a connection. The sex is different, but it's good fun too. :slight_smile:

    For now, give yourself time to adjust. When the dust has settled and you feel ready to connect with someone new you can explore the gay/bi dating world. It's entirely up to you how seriously go for it.
     
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    Thank you all very much for your messages and support, i will take it slow one day a time.
     
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    Hi. Sorry that you broke up with your girlfriend. I did reas your other post and you said that you have fantasies about woman and being a woman.

    Do you fantasize about being a woman having sex with men? Or just the penis? I say this bc its kind confusing since you watch a lot of transwoman porn like me. Because of how much i watched, i already had fantasies where i was being sub to a transwoman and she was doing me.

    So im just asking. But i hope you get answers :slight_smile:
     
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    Im not quite sure what you mean :slight_smile: I do fantasize about being a woman, i dress up like a woman, and pretend im with a man, when i mastubate.
    But i also watch "regular" porn, and get turn on by women. But i never fantasize about two men, and dosen't get turn on by watching that.