Crumbs I'm out of my depth too. My date the other night mentioned meeting again in the New Year. Nothing happened - we just talked. But she insisted on paying for my meal and although I bought her a drink afterwards I kind of feel obligated now. The other person I had a date planned (who showed an interest in me first from my online profile) has already got involved in a relationship and has let me know that we'd be meeting as "Just friends".