So.. this is all hypothetical because my imagination is slightly running away with me. But in all my excitement, I’m realising there’s a question underneath all my musings, and I honestly didn’t think of this “problem” before now. The question is - how does one date around, meaning, how does one actually juggle being non exclusive? Is it even realistic for someone like me who has limited free time? Let me give you the background: Ok, so I’ve met someone that has potential. I have been on apps for a while and going out to bars and obviously looking for experiences with women. Someone I met on an app, I’ll call her cupid crush, we have been talking a bit and I really liked the way our conversations were going, and she spontaneously asked me to meet her yesterday. It was brief but really nice and we will definitely see each other again. We’ve both been very clear that we’re interested. Now there’s another woman, i’ll call her work crush. She is gorgeous and interesting and awesome. She has been very very friendly with me, and I’m sure that’s all it is... but I don’t know, either I am over reading it as something a bit more or maybe it is something a bit more.... I just have this impression that she maybe *could* be giving me signals. Anyway, I would totally go for it with her. We’re meeting for coffee this Thursday. There’s another woman, let’s call her compatible crush, she is someone I met in another app, she seems to be really compatible with me and, though we haven’t met, I think we’d hit it off really well. She lives a bit far but we have been talking about meeting in a few weeks time. Then there’s one more woman, similar to the one above, she is a bit far and we have been talking about meeting in a few weeks time. Let’s call her solid crush, because I can see she has solid intentions to meet up and see where things go. I think it’s likely only one or maybe 2 of these women would turn into anything, but it got me thinking... How does one do non exclusive? As my earlier posts show, I’ve not been hitting it off with one night stands. If I see someone regularly I will be sure to be honest about where my head is and my need to not commit to things right now, but I also think logistically, I don’t know how to be in a non exclusive relationship, I don’t know how to date more than one person at a time... i have a fear as well that if I do see someone regularly I will end up getting serious at some point and miss my chance to be non exclusive, but I also don’t want to not see people regularly because i want that experience. This post probably seems a bit jumbled. I think the point is, I know what I want, but I’m not really sure how to achieve the casual thing. Does anyone have insight?