1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

Small Victories

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Kasey, Dec 11, 2014.

  1. Kasey

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Dec 21, 2013
    Messages:
    6,391
    Likes Received:
    156
    Location:
    The Commonwealth of Massachusetts
    Gender:
    Female (trans*)
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Yea that's a cute dress. Looks good.
     
  2. Nike007

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Feb 22, 2016
    Messages:
    268
    Likes Received:
    24
    Location:
    Ontario, Canada
    Gender:
    Androgyne
    Gender Pronoun:
    They
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Some people
    Today the pharmacist was confused because the name my file is under is Nicole. I guess I look more male then. Yay :slight_smile:.
     
  3. DreamerBoy17

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Aug 10, 2014
    Messages:
    240
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    United States
    Gender:
    Male (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Passed twice today... My dad looked a tad mortified :grin:
     
  4. FootballFan101

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Aug 8, 2015
    Messages:
    396
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    Europe
    Hey Kasey, you should take q photo every day from now until you finish estrogen puberty, it would be cool to see how the changes work on a transgirl who already when through T puberty
     
  5. penta

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Mar 3, 2015
    Messages:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Netherlands
    Gender:
    Female (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    had my first appointment at the gender clinic today, the psychologist said i am clearly on the right way with going into transition and he thinks we an start hrt in about 4 to 5 months :slight_smile:
    can't wait to get to that point.....
     
  6. looking for me

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Apr 11, 2014
    Messages:
    3,791
    Likes Received:
    869
    Location:
    on the Rock, Newfoundland and Labrador
    Gender:
    Female (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    very cute.
     
  7. Kasey

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Dec 21, 2013
    Messages:
    6,391
    Likes Received:
    156
    Location:
    The Commonwealth of Massachusetts
    Gender:
    Female (trans*)
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Ok.
     
  8. Michael

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Aug 30, 2014
    Messages:
    2,563
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    Europe
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Some people
    My father gave me a huge compliment on my looks, after sending him pictures. And I thought I hated compliments, oh boy...
     
  9. JackIsANerd

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Nov 4, 2015
    Messages:
    227
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Florida
    I just won a binder giveaway!! I cant wait to start binding :grin:
     
  10. Nike007

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Feb 22, 2016
    Messages:
    268
    Likes Received:
    24
    Location:
    Ontario, Canada
    Gender:
    Androgyne
    Gender Pronoun:
    They
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Some people
    My siblings are saying I don't look as feminine anymore. Yay!

    ---------- Post added 17th Mar 2016 at 06:14 PM ----------

    Congratulations! I hope you like it :slight_smile:.
     
  11. Aberrance

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Feb 18, 2016
    Messages:
    987
    Likes Received:
    131
    Location:
    England
    Gender:
    Male (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Went into the guys loos at college, granted it was 7pm and practically no one was there plus I had to leave and use the disabled toilet because the only stall in there was flooded but my confidence is building (kind of).
     
  12. Hawk

    Moderator Full Member

    Joined:
    May 12, 2015
    Messages:
    11,652
    Likes Received:
    697
    Location:
    Alberta
    Gender:
    Male (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Straight
    Out Status:
    Some people
    I did it! I changed my name on Twitter!
    It's not that big of a victory, I never use it much anymore, but I still did it! :grin:
     
  13. DemiLiHue

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Nov 22, 2015
    Messages:
    300
    Likes Received:
    2
    Location:
    Chile
    Gender:
    Male (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Some people
    I was going for a walk with my turtles and my mom. Two little girls (3 and 6 y.o. Approx) with their mom started looking at the turtle my mom had while I was in "the small woods" with my other turtle. Then I got to where my mom and the girls where with my turtle in my hand, (she, my turtle, loves me to have her) and her mom said "look at the turtle that boy has! It's so cute!" And i replied, in my manliest voice: yeah! She loves to be petted!

    OMGGGGGG!!!
    And I don't have boyish short hair nor boyish face nor bind with binder! OMGGGGG *dies*
     
    #1613 DemiLiHue, Mar 20, 2016
    Last edited: Mar 20, 2016
  14. Kasey

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Dec 21, 2013
    Messages:
    6,391
    Likes Received:
    156
    Location:
    The Commonwealth of Massachusetts
    Gender:
    Female (trans*)
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Went to the store. Was wearing high heel boots. The woman behind me I could hear say "those boots are fabulous".

    Compliment 1.

    Number 2, her daughter was busy with putting stuff on the cashiers conveyor belt. She was getting close to me trying to pack things. The mom started yelling at her daughter "get away from her, give her some space honey". Then apologized to me.
     
  15. Matto_Corvo

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Apr 8, 2015
    Messages:
    2,270
    Likes Received:
    49
    Location:
    Portland, Oregon
    Gender:
    Male (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Finally had my friend cut my hair in the style I want.
    I would of rather of gotten it professionally done but I chickened out. That being said I do love it. When t
    Its not styled it sort of looks like the hair cut a 16 year old buy from the late 90s/ early 2000s might have
     
  16. Daydreamer1

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Aug 17, 2011
    Messages:
    5,666
    Likes Received:
    15
    Location:
    Pennsylvania
    Gender:
    Male (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Other
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    My case worker called about getting my gender marker changed, and ran through everything I needed.

    Unfortunately, here in PA, I need proof of surgery to get my marker on my birth certificate changed and I'm holding off on getting my marker on social security out of the way once I can get my hysto cleared--just so nothing looks too funny. But, my ID marker will be easier and I'm assuming she's cool with signing off on the form I need for the DMV. I'm crossing my fingers that she can get everything mailed to me soon, then all I need to do is fill in the blanks with my DL-32 form and see where things go.

    It looks like I should be legally male (for the most part) by this year! Woot!
     
  17. AaronV

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Dec 26, 2015
    Messages:
    228
    Likes Received:
    5
    Location:
    Berlin (Germany)
    Gender:
    Male
    I was finally able to change the name on my high school diploma, my bank account and the card for my health insurance. Everyone was super nice and polite about it and I didn't receive any weird looks and yay. :grin:
     
  18. Kasey

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Dec 21, 2013
    Messages:
    6,391
    Likes Received:
    156
    Location:
    The Commonwealth of Massachusetts
    Gender:
    Female (trans*)
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    While not perfect, the world isn't an entirely evil place. People should be happy for you at best and indifferent at worst. Sounds like a good day.
     
  19. looking for me

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Apr 11, 2014
    Messages:
    3,791
    Likes Received:
    869
    Location:
    on the Rock, Newfoundland and Labrador
    Gender:
    Female (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    not sure if this counts as a victory or not. but on sunday morning i was laying in bed on my side and when i put my arm down by my side i felt like i had a femine hip shape even when i moved my arm i could feel the sheet on my hip but not my male hip, if that makes any sense. and when i moved my hand back i could feel it tactically and even when i moved my hand across my bum it had a female feel and shape, then the feeling just faded but i felt sooo nice and right with those larger hips and fuller bum. sorry if TMI but i was like Wow.

    i guess that counts as my first phantom body part experience? i was awake for all of this just to clarify.
     
    #1619 looking for me, Mar 23, 2016
    Last edited: Mar 23, 2016
  20. randomconnorcon

    Full Member

    Joined:
    May 27, 2015
    Messages:
    550
    Likes Received:
    28
    Location:
    Liverpool, England
    My binder finally came today! I've been wearing it for the past hour or so, just while I was in a couple of tutor meetings, and I'm just so happy!