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Small Victories

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Kasey, Dec 11, 2014.

  1. PossumJack

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    I nabbed a pair of gym shorts from my brother's closet to use during PE (we're the same height even though he's 3 years younger OTL), and the substitute teacher lumped me in with the other guys when making volleyball teams :grin:
     
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    Hell yeah, dude.

    My sideburns are coming in better than I expected. I got some fuzz on my cheeks, but it's faint to me. Sadly not much else, besides a weak looking mustache.

    I just need to be bear status by next winter. I hope so that is. Also, someone from the city messaged me a while ago and game me some rough numbers to go by for the name change process. If I'm crunching the numbers right, I might have $128 by January when the last of my monthly orders clear--meaning, a good 1/3 of the money I need if already taken care of.
     
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    Lol wow. :lol:
     
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    ---------- Post added 17th Dec 2014 at 04:04 PM ----------

    Oh yea... I got a pair of silicone breasts I didn't even order through the mail today. Unexpected but not unwelcome.

    Score!
     
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    What the...!

    What a great surprise to get something like that :slight_smile:
     
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    Thanks guys! It was well worth the volleyball I received in the face XD

    Neat! Looks like Santa sent his presents early this year :lol:
     
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    I know how it came to be. I ordered the same model before, but they must have thought they never sent it. But they did... Hehe.
     
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    I had my first victory today:icon_bigg, so I've haven't cross dressed since I was 10 because I didn't want to be bullied for cross dressing. But today I wore some of my sisters makeup and I though I actually sorta passed, although I have really short hair right now:frowning2:. This is a very small victory but it's really satisfying to finally stop pretending to be someone I'm not.
     
  9. Mischief

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    For some reason (even if it's weirdly) when girls look at me for prolonged amount of times I feel really sexy.

    Haven't felt that way in a while.
     
  10. NingyoBroken

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    ^I can sort of relate. Though I'm mostly gay, it feels great being complimented by girls..

    Perhaps because it justifies me passing.
    I've been called the Japanese equivalent of "handsome" and "hot", makes my day haha
     
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    Was at my first appointment at Gender therapy centre today. Was mostly information about what is going to happen, and it gonna take a looong time, but still :grin:

    And at the train on my way home the conductor was really confused when I said I was older then 20.
    Have to learn to avail the fact that I look like a teenager, though :icon_wink
     
  12. Kasey

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    I have a girl in my class who was... fairly intractable until the last week. Today we were making a dating website for sea creatures in symbiotic relationships. This girl asked can he be gay? I said yes.

    The girl next door says well "he likes man parts".

    My response was "Not all guys are born with male parts".

    That girls eyes lit up "YES you get it! Pound it!". Fist bump followed and lots of smiles.

    She dates the only openly transgender (guy) student in our school.

    LGBT cred +1.
     
  13. drwinchester

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    Yeah, gay too but love it when it happens (or at least when I notice it does).
     
  14. anonym

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    I have managed to lose some weight so I can fit into men's 28" waist again. Woohoo! Trousers that fit as opposed to fitting in the thighs but too big around the waist.
     
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    Ordered my first actual binder online as a christmas present to myself! (!)

    If my mom ends up opening the package before me I'll tell her it's for a friend or something...She's "fine with the gays" (actual quote there, anyone who isn't heterosexual and cis is "a gay" to her) as long as her children aren't part of it.
     
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    great to make those connections with students isn't it?:thumbsup:

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    i took advantage of some time i had today and did some Christmas shopping for my girl side. got a cute top, some underwear and these really cute shoes that are pretty comfortable. one top i bought was too small but thats ok, "guys have to return stuff they got wrong for their "ladies" all the time. :icon_wink"

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    this is on my list for the new year.
     
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    My colleague and I were talking about the overturning of title 7 discrimination under the civil rights act of 1964. She then said "well don't do anything though until your 3 years are up for tenure".

    Oh I know. But she was open to the idea of me coming out at that point.
     
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    Thanks Jay(*hug*) i already have some DIY ones, but i would like some "realistic" breasts that i dont have to worry, as much, will leak like balloons can and are softer than the rice in the stocking ones.

    you are always so helpful with post links(*hug*)

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    you go girl, in your own time of course:icon_bigg
     
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    Laser hair tech REALLY zapped me good.