omg this is big. i went next door to see what my dad was doing up around his new greenhouse. we chatted for a bit, talking banking etc. he mentioned that the bank told him that he was near his credit limit because he signed for a loan for me, it's almost paid off, and he hoped nothing happened to his son because he'd have to finish the loan. he said, because she's now my daughter! thats the first time he's said that oh my god! im his daughter! oh lord thank you.