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Single life in 2017

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by OED27x, Aug 19, 2017.

  1. silverhalo

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    Is there something specific stopping you?
     
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    Just haven't had the opportunity. I think I'll tell her if I get the chance.
     
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    Haha sounds good. No worries. Just being nosy as usual.
     
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    Just wanted to say yay for cute girls who work at coffee shops lol thank you to whoever posted about Gypsy. I stayed home sick today and have been binge watching it. Took forever to get to the part I wanted to see though.
     
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    @dreamingfreely was the part you wanted to see the part where they FINALLY had sex in Sidney's apartment?? Because it took them soooo long to get to that point? Oh my god.
     
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    Bingo lol. I was like what stopping for pizza come on get with it. Anyways that is the last episode before I had to stop for dinner
     
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    Exactly. Who the hell stops to get high first. Then have pizza. THEN have sex.

    Yes! Cute girls in coffee shops. I kind of feel like a creep actually bc honestly even if barista isn't gay I'm just loving looking at her. She has the type of smile where if she's smiling at you, you just can't help but smile back.

    honestly, what is wrong with me!?!!?
     
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    There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. There's not enough smiling in the world as far as I'm concerned. If she's a smiler, smile back. Even if nothing is going to come of it, you're helping to spread moments of happiness. For you and her.
     
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    Thanks. That's a nice way of looking at it!
     
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    OMG, yes that episode was excruciating!!! What the hell was WRONG with them? After building up to that for 6 episodes, it was like enough already. The whole episode should have just been them in bed.

    Haha, you feel like a creep. I've been feeling that way lately too! Like, really, RJ the feminist, the one who was always disgusted by men "objectifying women", THAT same person is now checking women out for purely their physical attributes **all the time**. Even just a photo of an attractive woman I've never met gets me feeling ridiculous. So whatever is wrong with you is just as wrong with me. We are going to hell together.
     
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    @RJay we are going to have a great time on the way there!
     
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    Operation Barista is going great. This morning she told me how you have to open your mind to change, and I asked if she was trying to give me life advice. I told her that I could give her some life advice. Then she said, please do. *sigh* then we said each other's name again. Then she waved bye when I left.

    I have officially turned into an adolescent. And a creep.
     
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    O.M.G. You are so awesome... This **is** turning into a Gypsy-esque plot line. Tell me you didn't check yourself out in a compact or something before walking in there. So hot... Keep us posted. :wink:
     
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    I am loving this storyline
     
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    Is it still creepy that the barista I most like to watch is a lovely person who remembers her regulars names and gets so excited to see their dogs. She also has a great fashion sense and a boyfriend lol. Oh and it is the best coffee in Balboa park. The setting is in middle of the artist village too. Interesting thing to me is that she is not my usual type but I think genuinely nice people tend to be attractive. Dont get me wrong she is very cute.
     
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    @dreamingfreely no that's not creepy.

    But I think regardless, I'm having fun practicing my girl flirting. I've made it pretty obvious I like her. That was my goal I guess! I only asked her name specifically. And when she asked if I was coming on sat I said I was either going to Pride or the coffee shop. So, I would think she knows by now. Anyway, it's fun and I will look at it as being very friendly!
     
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    @RJay of course I checked myself out! I put on extra lip gloss. Lol.
     
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    Sigh...
     
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    Hey practice makes perfect. I think you put yourself out there and mentioning Pride was a good hint. Now hopefully she is gay/bi and is single.
     
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    I want to give you the full picture - I was wearing grey skinny jeans, a baseball t shirt, converse, and aviator sunglasses. I did not shower this morning but I wore deodorant. Lol. And I brushed my teeth. And flossed. I wore light makeup. A bit of powder, blush, light eye make up and mascara. I wore my hair down which was wavy and I put argon oil in it which makes it not frizzy and super soft and shiny. I wore several bracelets: one my mom gave me, one my son gave me, one I got on a girls weekend, and one my crush gave me (which says 'trust the journey')
    I ordered a medium coffee with almond milk. and when she gave me the almond milk, I said 'thanks babe.'
    Hahahahhaha!!