Hi It my first post here but looking for some advice. I've been in a relationship now for 4 and half years. Things have been a bit rocky I suspected cheating in the past but I had no proof so let it slide. Also I've always knows she has money trouble and about a year and a half ago it all came out that she had loads of loans and over drafts etc however she sat down with her mum and sorted it all into 1 manageable bank loan and was on track to have it cleared in 2 years. Her mum even started paying half her rent to help her out. I logged into my laptop recently after not using it for ages and her emails were open on my desktop. I know I shouldn't have but I do always worry that she may be lying to me so I decided to have a read. I came across so many payday loans and credit cards demanding payment. Obviously these were taken out after it all came to light before. I know I shouldn't have looked but I am the complete opposite with money. I have plenty savings for a rainy day, I have bought my car outright and still have left over to treat myself or my girlfriend. I don't make loads money in fact I make less than my girlfriend does. It really stresses me out knowing she's in this financial trouble and that she is lying to me about it. She is also talking about moving in together but I don't think I can with that hanging over her. What should I do?