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Sexuality?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Esstrong, May 24, 2018.

  1. Esstrong

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    yeah confusion ain't fun at all............
     
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    What is confusing you? What’s your story?
     
  3. Love4Ever

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    :thumbsup:Yep, hit us up with some details and we'll be happy to help.
     
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    First..i feel confused as hell.Second..I dont know how or what to feel.Third...i dont know how to express myself.And fourth,,,its frustrating.
     
  5. RebeccaK

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    I'm in the same place. When did this confusion start and why, do you think?
     
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    Been years now...and the funny part...i still dont know how to handle the frustrations ..how it started i dont have a single idea...
     
  7. RebeccaK

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    What about it frustrates you? There must be a way to trace this feeling back. Are you questioning whether or not you're attracted to women? If so, have you ever kissed a woman/femme presenting person or experimented with them? Or is it just that you notice a difference between how you feel about men versus women?
     
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    I know it’s hard but try to begin by explaining how you feel. Whatever is on your mind you can say it here. It’s a completely safe place! There’s tons of support on here.
     
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    Exactly. Our job is to help. And I like to think we're all pretty good at it. :slight_smile:
     
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    Sometimes I find that kinda just vomiting words onto the page, (gross metaphor sorry :slight_smile: ) can be very helpful. Just writing it all out, even if it isn't coherent necessarily or makes a lot of sense, can sometimes reveal clues to yourself and others you might not have seen before. I feel often getting out of my own head is the best possible solution 99% of the time.
     
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    I like that idea. It’s helped me sort through my feelings. I literally write down everything that I think. It looks crazy sometimes but it has helped.