I'm wondering if the lack of boys is making me more queer. I know that this is a really controversial statement but I'm beginning to think that it genuinely might be the case for me. I never felt ANYTHING towards girls at all until I started going to an all-girls school a year ago when I was 13. I'd had a few crushes on guys before then (although the idea of kissing them always grossed me out). Since then I have barely any contact with guys that aren't members of my family. I'll see boys on the bus and sometimes I might say 'hi' to a guy from my intermediate but that's almost just about it. And this year I've started developing feelings towards girls, and now I think I might have a crush on one of my girl friends. This has been going on for about six months (the feelings, not the crush). Also whenever I don't have any contact with girls for a few days- say its a three day weekend instead of a two day weekend, and during that time I don't meet up with anyone- then I'll start feeling attraction mostly towards guys, and think I'm straight. Then when I go to school again, I'll start feeling queer again. Is this normal? I think it might be a phase but I'm not sure if I want it to be because saying it's a phase seems like saying my feelings are all invalid, and my feelings feel very real. In fact, my crush that I have on my girl friend is way more powerful than any crush I've ever had on a guy. Thank you!