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Sexual orientation

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by LostTaurus, Jan 7, 2018.

  1. LostTaurus

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    Sexual Orientation:
    Questioning
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    A few people
    How did you find out you were lesbian? Were there any signs?

    Thanks
     
  2. silverhalo

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    Out to everyone
    Hey, I didn't figure out I was a lesbian until I was in my mid 20's. If someone had asked me at that point I'd have said there were no clues and hints up until that point that I was anything other than straight. Since then and since accepting my sexuality and coming out etc, if I look back now there are things I can see that kind of were a bit like hints but at the time I didn't see them.

    What made you question your sexuality?
     
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  3. Hollycat26

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    Let's see...
    I hadn't ever been into guys as a child, and I had a huge crush on one of my friends. I didn't really know being lesbian was an option when I was a kid so I kinda just figured I hadn't found the right guy. Eventually, I decided that I wanted to be with girls because that is who I am. I am still in the closet, but I at least know that I can be honest with myself.
     
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