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Sexual fantasies and orientation (Chip help please)

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by ihmawtd1234, Nov 20, 2018.

  1. ihmawtd1234

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    Okay so i have been posting alot of “ami bi or gay” stuff lately, and alot of you clever people suggested that i should take a look at what i fantasize about while masturbating since that is a good indicator of sexual orientation... so i have been doing exactly that...
    Although i often masturbate while thinking about guys i also masturbate while thinking about women sometimes...

    This post is about my fantasies regarding women.
    I have noticed that i ALWAYS fantasize about a woman either giving me a blowjob or a handjob or both...
    Its never about actual sexual intercourse..
    there is also some dominance to it that i enjoy... the fact that its all in her hands literally and she is in control..
    this dominance thing is also the reason why i have always enjoyed fantasizing about my female teachers doing sexual stuff with me...

    What im wondering is really if it “counts as a valid straight fantasy”..I mean is these handjob-blowjob fantasies enough to actually “prove” that i am attracted to women? Or would it be more about their body in itself rather than Them doing sexual acts on me?

    I hope this makes sense to you hahah
     
  2. Love4Ever

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    Not Chip, but I really think you should just try to relax on the "testing". You've been worrying about this an awful lot. Dominance imho has nothing to do with sexual orientation. I like to be dominant with men, but I am okay with being submissive with a woman. I am bi, but that's just how I am built. That's just what I am conformable with. It doesn't define my choice of sexual partners.
     
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