let me ask you something how important is being satisfy in sex when you find somebody who resonates with your same energy but sexually is not hitting on the points. how is sex really important for a gay relationship?
For me it is not that important, I want emotional closeness and support and as far as physical I can get by with just cuddling. It might be possible though that I am somewhere on the Asexual spectrum but I am not sure, that might have something to do with it.
I think it's important, but I can't really imagine someone checking all the other boxes and me not being able to have good sexual chemistry with them. I mean I guess if someone just didn't like sex that would be difficult for me...
Consider prioritizing sex amongst all other relationship attributes that you look for. Then compare that to that relationship attributes you perceive to have with the other person. See how the attributes you desire line up with the attributes you have. Only you can decide how to prioritize it.
