I have started seriously thinking about buying a bra, but I have some serious concerns. The biggest concern is how I look in public. I don't have breast forms, and from the neck up, I completely look like a guy, so I'm worried that it would look too weird. My other concern is finding the right bra. If I measured myself correctly I'm a size 42, that's pretty big and come only in large cup sizes. I'm also worried about with such a large bra, would my shirts fit correctly. Does anyone have any experience with this or advice they can give me? Anything can help.