Rimjobs, questions and help

A lot of people have a stigma about this, it is quite pleasurable. To say it’s the same as or better than fellatio I think would depend on the person. We are all built different. For me it is very pleasurable, more so than fellatio. But I am a man definitely built to be a bottom. I have super intense body orgasms from being a bottom.


Something that might help him be more comfortable with rimming is to get a piece of Suran Wrap and put it over it so there is a barrier similar to a condom. This might help.


Just my two cents your mileage may vary.

 

Great advice above.

Like everything else in sex it depends from person to person. Some people will love it, some will be meh about it and some people just hate the idea.

These is a lot of taboo behind rimming so it can be an obstacle for people to try it out. Its understandable of course. If your boyfriend is a not okay about it, talking about the stigma and our feelings behind it can help a lot.

I personally love it. For me, its a feeling like nothing I have ever experienced. Its super hard to explain, but its quite enjoyable. I would definitely say enough to recommend trying it at least once.

All that said, couple of things. Make sure you have the Hep B vaccine. Hep B is easy to transmit during a rim job. The shot will keep you safe from it all. Depending on where you live you might already have it so check with your parents or doctor if you don't know. Its not just for STDs so if you aren't out don't worry they won't guess.

 

I thought it was Hep A. There are combined hepatitis vaccines that protect against both.

 

Hep B is a series of three injections over a period of time.

 

I've been rimmed once before. I'm very ticklish so, it just felt wet. I was uncomfortable after a minute or so, so I just pulled the guy from behind my well...behind and started making out again. I'm not sure if he understood, since he didn't rim me again.

I did enjoy being penetrated with fingers. So I guess my experience is too little to actually comment on it. I for one am not comfortable rimming anyone else though. It's still too 'icky" in my mind to get over the feeling lol,

 

They are both easily transmitted through rimjobs, but from my understanding (I'm not a doctor) hep b vaccination is less common and having hep b is way scarier than hep a. Having both vaccines is definitely the best route.

 

I completely enjoy giving and getting. Extremely erotic and sensual but would do it only in a relationship not a hook up.

 

OMG....I'm still on my sexual revolution.....it's been 12 months since coming out. Only last few months started seeing guys. Firstly I did a bad thing and had unprotected sex. BUT this lead me to the STI clinic, was really impressed, really modern AND I felt no shame . By going there I'm getting my Hep A and B and because I'm under 45 another jab i can have. I'm clear of infections. I learned my LESSON to use condoms.....
Anyway my revolution had me thinking about rimming now. And as long as the guy is super clean I want to give it ago. It's weird how my sexual barriers have come down. Once I wasn't comfortable with anal sex, now I enjoy it and the rimming will try if the right guy comes along.....
Jon

 

I worked in a nursing home for a short while and they never said anything about A but were very concerned with B.

 

It is all preference. I enjoy receiving a rimjob, mostly because it is an area that is not touched too often. It feels very good in my opinion. I am always clean and shaven when I ask for a rimjob.

 

I went to a sexual health clinic recently and as a newly out gay guy was given Hep A and B...

 

I gave the last guy I saw a rim job, I actually really enjoyed it. To bad he didn't appreciate me lol.... anyway it's all life experience.
I would definitely give rim jobs again, would like to receive it too.....

 

2 1/2 years ago I would told you the idea of a rim job or anal with another guy was crazy, perverted and dirty. Boy how things change. Since embracing my gay sexuality it has freed me to enjoy both with my BF. It took a little while to get comfortable with the practices but once I did, it was maximum enjoyment both giving and receiving.

 

I think that's partly my problem....I'm still becoming comfortable. I gave my first rim job and really loved it. It seemed normal. Have topped a bit, but then freeked out.....if the guy was more supportive I wouldn't have run for the hills. I suppose it's all a learning curve for me and others here......one day soon it will be amazing.....

 

For me part of my “transitioning” to gay was getting use to the idea of gay sexuality. We are so programmed to think it’s wrong that it takes some time to work through and clear those misconceptions. At beginning I was clumsy, unsure, awkward and extremely nervous but luckily for me by BF was so patience, loving and gentle. He helped learn the dynamics of man to man love making.That made becoming comfortable with same sex intimacy so much easier.
Once you get over the initial “hump” no pun intended, you start to relax, get into it and enjoy.

 

You hit the nail on the head, as we say in the UK, I was with the wrong partner! But hopefully the next guy will be patient and encourage me.

 

The feeling of intimate connection rimming and anal bring is so incredible. Being penetrated either way by your lover is both humbling and empowering all at the same time.Knowing that the safety of the relationship will allow sexual expression beyond what one can imagine. I never would have believed it look until I was 50 to understand what love making was as opposed to sex. The willingness to please and be pleased without guilt or shame is so fucking liberating. Please excuse the French but it’s the only word I feel fits.