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Question for other Bi people...

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by iWolf, Apr 10, 2017.

  1. iWolf

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    Do you have certain things about people that you find attractive in one gender but not in the other? For me it is probably muscles.
     
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    Ooh good question! I'd probably say a kind face for men and a nice smile for women. But generally I'm more attracted to women (and deep conversations).
     
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    I like skinny women, but dislike skinny men
    I like women shorter than me, dislike shorter men
    I like women with a smaller shoe size than me, dislike men with a smaller shoe size (I have big feet, and feel self-conscious about it if a man has smaller feet)
     
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    I was thinking about this too lately. I'm okay at drawing so a couple of weeks ago, as a part of figuring out how my sexuality works I made a pencil drawing of a male body and a female body. And drew hearts on the parts and places I find the most attractive.
    And about 60% of the hearts are on different bodyparts.
     
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    I think so. I never really thought about it, but I think that curves fit better in a woman's body and I preffer masculine-looking men or feminine women. I happen to find the other traits good on anyone (size, smile, muscles, eyes).
     
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    I'm sure there are, but I take most of them for granted and judge each person on an individual basis.
     
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    I can't really say. When it comes to guys, I guess I like seeing abs and a nice looking face. When it comes to females, I usually like their face, eyes, butt, hips, and waist. I guess it depends from my point of view.
     
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    When it comes to anyone i like to get to know them first but apart from that i like guys that are kind, not exactly strong (like me) and don't act like self centered *bleep* and really it's the same for females and i am against treating people like objects no matter race, skin tone etc.
     
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    Hmmm I don't think the things I like on people are infuenced by their gender. Maybe I should better call myself pan instead of bi, I guess. I've complemented my ex boyfriend's long hair, soft skin and slightly big butt, and he was a bit confused. Like "but these are not the things one likes on a man".
     
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    I don't think so. I have a preference for androgynous more feminine men. Lots of muscles is a turn off in men and women. I prefer medium to long hair on both. And high cheeckbones. But the most important thing to me in a person is that he/she is good at heart.
     
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    Well, I don't necessarily find muscles or excessive body hair unattractive with women - it just isn't an automatic turn-on for me like it is with men.
     
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    Definitely body shape! I much prefer the female body shape to a males, but with male I prefer it if they're taller than me.. With females probably about the same height is good :3
     
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    Hmm.. I find that I'm not really into guys who are shorter than me. Also, I find curves a more prevalent part of a woman's attractiveness. Other than that, I feel like my preferences among both men and women are very similar...(Dark colored hair, less body hair, beautiful eyes and smile, bold eyebrows, soft/warm voice, a bit geeky and dorky, etc)
    Ah, but of course, the personality is the most important. I would feel very uncomfortable if they were to be crudely judgemental and unfiltered in the way they speak. Also, I would appreciate them to actively support me pursuing other things in my life, like school and my career in the future, and give me the space I need.
     
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    Yeah, I mean I like skinny guys with dark hair but girls I like are mostly chubby and have blonde hair. IDK that's just me
     
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    I generally like the same assets in a person no matter the gender, but I recently realized that I'm only ever attracted to girls with dark hair, while some of my biggest male crushes have been blonde.
    I'm also very drawn to girls who are dominant and controlling, but dislike when guys act that way outside of certain situations.