So... ummm... I've been thinking about some stuff. And I needed to know something. I know all about non binary lesbians, and support them, but I am not sure if it's like, okay for me to identify as a non binary lesbian. I identify as genderfae, so I'm genderfluid, but I wasn't sure if since I don't always feel like a girl, I guess, if I could also identify as a lesbian. The answer to this is probably really obvious, but I can't find anything online about it.
I think it really only matters how you currently feel. Do you have people asking you how you identify? If you do, you can certainly simplify matters and just say lesbian but know in yourself that it’s more nuanced. But do they really need to know that? That’s up to you. You should just do what feels right to you and know that that can change in the future and that’s fine, too.