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Pretty sure im straight but

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Haribo, Aug 28, 2018.

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  1. Love4Ever

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    OMG! I've been following this thread and I'm so happy for you! That's awesome. You go dude for asking him.
     
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    I had the most sleep I've gotten all week, maybe even longer.
    So I woke up to like a bajillion messages and missed calls.

    I hung out with him again today and we talked about 'particulars' and we've settled on being friends who are aware we like each other and nothing else right now. If in a month we're dating, cool but we're not like committing to a 'status' right now.

    It's weird coz I think in my head I was expecting like massive commotion and I was gonna go there and we'd just get all caught up and rip each other clothes off and have amazing sex and then boom yeah I'm bi now, this is my boyfriend. But I think that was just me naivety and not something I actually wanted. But it does feel a little anticlimactic. Like I was dreading a big fan fare but now im like almost bitter im not gonna get one lmao.

    He mentioned my family and I realised I haven't even thought about it. I'm sure they won't care. Like I don't even feel the need to but im sure i'll tell them if things get more serious.

    I asked him on a real date this time lmao. So we're going out next week properly.
     
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    :ok_hand:This is so great. I'm really happy for you.
     
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    Honestly, I'm not sure if this is what you want to hear, but these feelings do not sound like those of a straight man. You may be predominantly straight except for this guy, but to me it's clear you're sexually attracted to him from all of what you wrote. (Yes, I read the entire post). And the way you describe feeling reminded me of myself. And as you can see from my profile, I'm not straight. The real question here is do you want to act on this? Do you want to be with him? Because it sounds like you do imho.
     
    #44 Love4Ever, Sep 3, 2018
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    I think you're late to the party.
     
    #45 Haribo, Sep 5, 2018
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