As many now know (and any others can easily see in the coming out stories thread I posted before) I cam out to my dad not too long ago... I had been thinking about it for a long time, planned it for a while, and finally pulled the trigger after a few weeks of trying... Things went pretty well, and a couple weeks later I let him read the letter I wrote my mom to come out to her. I basically wanted his advice since it is his wife and all.. Plus as I mentioned in my other thread, I had left some shit out and figured rather than having to work up the courage again, I could just let him read it in her letter, problem solved. Well the other day he sat me down and prefaced what he was about to say by telling me he "doesnt want this to sound like a threat but..." Basically he said that if I dont tell my mother he is going to have to... He doesnt feel right keeping something this "big" from her... Now I was taken completely off guard because he had such a good response to me coming out before... I just kinda nodded, agreed and changed the subject as quickly as I could.. I dont want to add my own thoughts to the thread just yet as I want as unbiased and unadulterated responses as possible. But I will be adding some more to this thread later once I get some feedback, because there is more, sort of... At least as far as what I think and all... So, I guess what I wanted to do was vent, as well as here what others think or maybe some suggestions... Definitely some general support, because this is definitely causing me significantly higher anxiety... Thanks.