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Physical turn-ons and turn-offs (lesbian edition)

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  1. Deathsinger

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    To all of us dykes, queers or bisexuals in here, what are your biggest physical turn-ons and turn-offs in a girl or a woman? Give the big details, so maybe if some of us can find help in this area.
    I may begin! This is my opinion.
    Turn-ons:
    A beautiful smile, big eyes, wavy and curly hair, FRECKLES, pale skin, short height, plaids and flannels, shorts, long socks, sun dresses, braces (for some girls only), easily blushing, fluffy cheeks, slightly above average weight, small hands, pinkish lips and cheeks, long natural eyelashes...
    Turn-offs:
    Heavy makeup, enormous butt, flat chest, dreads (there are exceptions, too skinny, huge tighs and hips, sunglasses with no sun, never smiling, slutty outfits (except for cosplay... or for me).

    That's pretty much all I can think of. Your turn.
     
  2. Fallingdown7

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    Turn-ons:

    Dark hair, androgyny, small chests, a cute voice (I especially like raspy monotone voices dunno why)

    Turn-offs:
    Breasts that are C cup or higher, Having their genitals fully shaven (ew), TOO feminine or TOO masculine
     
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    Depends on the woman. I can find them all appealing, in their own unique ways.

    Each one has their own way about them, which cannot be fairly compared to another. For example, some face shapes compliment certain hair styles better; it isn't that a particular face shape or hair style is a turn on or turn off itself, only on certain individuals.

    I'd talk about attitude and presence, but this was wanting to know about physical things. And yes I know, my answer is quite boring.
     
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    Turn ons: Not afraid to show their natural beauty, in some cases, androgyny, in others femininity. Certainly not a requirement, but long, curly, fiery locks are amazing. Personality is most important, though.

    Turn offs: too much makeup, overbearing personality. I can't stand people that are fake.
     
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    Turn-ons: Nice hands, short clean nails and hands that are obviously used to some hard work, leather anything, Butch/Stud women, Chivalry, body hair legs or underarms, piercings and tattoos, dimples and freckles, average or above body weight, smaller breasts, boots, Alpha women.

    Turn-offs: Make-up unless to cover skin condition or for sun protection(BBs etc), completely shaved pubes, Femme or girly looking and acting women(I love them as friends but for a partner, no), skinny or boney, very large breasts, dresses or low cut tops, heels, drinkers that drink too much, party to much and bar flys.
     
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    I get easily turned on by a woman if they're REALLY physically fit. Muscles on a woman look really sexy to me, in my opinion.

    A turnoff would be if they had any kind of body mutilation and dyed their hair unnatural colors.
     
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    God dammit I have so many! I may not get them all down.

    My Physical Turn Ons in a cute/sexy feminine girl: Mysterious look! Green/blue eyes depends on the girl really (I have fallen for girls with brown eyes before) Dark Hair or Blonde or whatever it depends. I love blondes/brunettes though. Cute smile! Sexy Laugh! Sexy voice! Red lips, Cute tits :wink: big or small.. just not too big or too small.

    Nice ass, cute shoulders, overall sexy body frame, I love it when girls wear turtlenecks or halterneck tops with nice jeans, I love the cute chic summer look with short denim hightop pants and a gorgeous top to top it off. Heels or flats doesn't matter, Necklaces and small tattoos, I can't deny women with eyebrow, nose or lip piercings! Nipple piercings are hot too! I would only like a couple of piercings on her body though. Adorable hands, Sexy mysterious makeup.

    Turn offs: Not much except overweight (I am sorry I know that's not nice) and bad hygiene. Oh and straight girls.. yet I still want to fuck some of them :frowning2: Oh and butch women. No offense.

    Above all a cute girly girl personality! Sophisticated yet silly. I love everything about women! ♥
     
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    Turn-ons
    Beautiful eyes, great smile

    Turn-offs
    Skanky appearance, big butt
     
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    Turn-ons: curls, dark hair/eyes/skin, thick eyebrows, androgyny, dimples, freckles, full lips, "thick" body type, lip piercings (nothing extreme though), short hair, raspy/low voices, good unique personal style, gap teeth

    Turn-offs: excessive piercings, very feminine, fake tan, fake nails, very masculine
     
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    Turn ons: dominance, unapologetic nature, boldness, broad hips, smooth shoulders, dramatic features, long fingers but short nails, medium sized boobs, sultry voice.

    Turn offs: heavy makeup, unrealistic perfection, too much pubic hair removed, too big or small boobs, high voice, slutty clothes, childish clothes (anything that that makes me feel creepy), being too much shorter than me.
     
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    Ugh I feel the same way Chloe!
     
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    Turn ons: Blonde hair, tattoos, piercings, badass, nice voice(I'm a musical person)
    Turn offs: Heteronormativity, questioning sexuality, patronizing, annoying voice or mannerisms, being boring.
     
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    Turn ons: Physical confidence, great hair, dark hair, blond hair, red hair (I like them all!), radiant smiles, sundresses, mischievous eyes, little or no makeup, someone who takes care of herself physically but doesn't have to be health-obsessed.

    Turn offs: Tattoos, especially on hands, arms, etc. Vocal fry, aka Kardashian voice. Baby speak, baby tone. Fake or excessive tans. Too much makeup. Fake boobs, fake lips, fake anything. Loudness. Treating people like servers or cashiers badly. Gratuitous swearing, rudeness or trashiness in general.
     
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    Turn ons: medium to long hair, cute smile, nice eyes (more about shape than color), pleasant voice (I prefer smooth/sweet ones), medium breasts. These are just some preferences, but without the personality factor they don't mean that much.
    Turn offs: smokers (can't stand the smell), excessively long nails, bad hygiene.
     
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    Turn-ons: Longish hair (dreadlocks are sexy), taller height (5'5'' and up), wavy hair, bigger than me in build, pretty smile, nice teeth, bigger hands, curvy, any size breast from B-DD.

    Turn-offs: Spiky short hair, overly masculine and overly feminine, someone who cares too much about how they look, fake anything cosmetic surgery wise (boobs, ass, face, etc.), short stature, small boned, little hands, squeaky voice.
     
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    I find all kinds of women attractive, though I have a soft spot for freckles and cute smiles. I can't think of anything that will always turn me off, except poor hygiene.
     
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    Turn ons: small chest and not too large hips, confident, not afraid to say what they think, medium length hair, tiny bit shorter than me.

    Turn offs: basically the opposite of above xD
     
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    Turn ons: curly hair, big eyes, full lips, thick eyebrows, curves, fit, around the same height as me (preferably a bit taller), beautiful laugh and smile, generally more attracted to femmes and stems but studs can be attractive too

    Turn offs: I don't really have many dealbreakers. What's described above is just my ideal type, the only dealbreaker I can really think of is POOR HYGIENE!!!! UGH xP

    (Edit: And as someone mentioned above, long nails is a huge turn off. They scare me.)
     
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    Long nails aren't bad. I've done thigs with a couple of women who have long nails, and never had any internal scratches or anything. (And they're good for scratches down the back. But that's just my kink.)
     
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    I think maybe it's what long nails say about a person. I associate them with stereotypical Jersey girls who get fake tans lol. But yeah...long, perfect nails could mean high maintenance, or a someone who has magazine beauty standards.