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Physical Attraction

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by LilLady9, Feb 18, 2021.

  1. LilLady9

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    I've known I'm bisexual almost since I can remember, but I've never really been physically attracted to men like I am women.

    However, as I've gotten older, I have noticed my physical attraction to men has grown. Although, my physical attraction to women has also grown. I would say I am still far more physically attracted to women though.

    Is it normal for my physical attraction to men to increase as I get older?

    Why do you think this is?
     
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    Could be because you are now more accepting of your same sex attractions. Also, it could be the “forbidden fruit” aspect. Sometimes we want what don’t feel we should have or can have.
     
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    Thank you. I think you're probably spot on. Although I've known I'm bisexual for a long time, its only been awhile since I have accepted and started to embrace it.
     
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    That’s the same way I’m I’ve always had an attraction to other boys but it wasn’t until my late teens into my 20s that I even admitted to myself that I find other guys sexually attractive. But of course there were signs I missed growing up.