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Pegging Versus Anal

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by RonRoberts, Nov 5, 2020.

  1. RonRoberts

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    My husband and I have been doing some anal play on him. We believe he is Bi but not with much experience. How does pegging compare to anal with a guy? I have used a small dildo on him but will be buying a strap on. Would pegging prepare him better for bottoming?
     
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    Anal feels significantly better. Dildo type stuff is still a cold, lifeless object and feels like it. An actual dick is more flexible, warm, etc. which makes everything work better. It's still a good way to prepare him though.
     
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    Yes it will prepare him for bottoming. But like Dustin said nothing like the real thing. It can be a loving and enjoyable encounter for both of you. Use lots of lube and start smaller and work your way to bigger size. Some didoes feel very real. BTW just because he enjoys analysis does not make him bi. Many males like analysis play
     
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    Yes I do understand it does not make him bi. He is in the process of trying to figure it out for himself. He really wants to give a blowjob and swallow. He is turned on my taking a big one but I think the reality may surprise him. I think he may just have some kink/fetish and not be bi, but he will have to figure it out for himself.
     
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    Out of curiosity does he watch a lot of porn ?
     
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    Yes. Do you think that influences this?
     
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    Yes\ no but he may just have a fetish, is he in lgbt therapy to help him figure out who he is because no one determine that but him. Have you both talked about possibly threesome with another male ?