Empty Closets has been a godsend as I have strived to come to grips with my non-standard sexuality and my fervent desire to keep my wife and family happy. I have really opened up here, writing things that I had not written ever before. I have bared my soul, much like I would do in a personal diary. Organizing and expressing my thoughts has been really helpful, and on top of that I've gotten some amazingly useful feedback from you all. My goal remains the same: I want to be authentic, happy and transparent, and I want my wife to feel my love and for her and my family to be happy. And hopefully, along the way I can help some other people here as well. My wife has cracked my Empty Closets name, and she's reading my posts. She is the only person in the world that knows the real-life me and my Empty Closets info. At first I felt betrayed, like someone had found my locked diary, opened it, and read it. I didn't think I was ready for it, but now everything is out in the open. There is a silver lining in that, but it's not easy. It feels like an important part of my support system has collapsed. What should I do?