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Nudity, how shy are you?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Ditz, Feb 3, 2013.

  1. leer

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    was into sports as well in school so had to shower but we didnt have the teacher making weird comments .
     
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    I'm not shy! I'll take off my shirt for you right now! (Oh, fuck, boobs!)

    Heh... :icon_redf Um.... OK, maybe I'm a little shy. But I've been the subject of nude photographs taken in the woods before.
     
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    I'm fine with my legs and bum but my boobs are only a B and don't suit my wide hips so I never wear a bikini. Oh well
     
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    I think I'm fat :/ Also, I would only get naked in front of my BF when I am 21+ XD.
     
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    No shirt wouldn't bother me...but I'd never want anyone to se me without pants :eek:
     
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    I'm ok with it, I've gone to the beach taken my shirt off. I've even considered going to a nude a beach, but I'm trying find a group of people to go with(safety in numbers!).
     
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    In the past, I've been okay in locker rooms etc. where everybody's naked. Despite that, I'm less comfortable actually going swimming and being in a state of undress for more than a few seconds.

    At the moment though, I'm so dysmorphic that even my hypothetical boyfriend would never get to see me naked.
     
  8. I have to share a room with two younger sisters; I always get changed in the bathroom. It's the same at school, and when I sleep at my friends, or my mum's house.
    There's not a chance that ANYONE has seen me nude since I was about eight.
     
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    I've always been shy, not many people have gotten to see my naked. Even most of the people I dated didn't get to.
     
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    I really started to care about me being seen naked when I hit middle school. I think it's when I found out about porn and masturbation. Up till then I didn't care. I would walk out of the shower butt naked.
     
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    In my case it all comes down to who am I with. If it's a very close friend, I can stand being on underwear, though only at home. Other than that I am quite shy when it comes to showing off my body to the world.

    That's mainly one of the reasons why I always go dressed to reenactments, rather than dressing up in our locker rooms. I don't like being half naked around 45 year old half naked men.
     
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    I'm never nude unless I'm taking a shower or changing clothes. I always feel vulnerable.
     
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    soooo shy, never taken the shirt off at the beach or anything... NEVERRRR
     
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    I'm rather shy to be honest. I wear a shirt at the beach, and I'll get a shirt and undies on between walking to my room and the shower (and they are next to each other so bit ridiculous). However that is because I'm anxious about it,, and I"m guessing if around someone I trusted and was in a relationship with then I could be fully naked comfortably.
     
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    I'm pretty self conscious. The only time I had to use communal bathrooms was in 11th grade for Boys State (a kind of "civic" camp hosted by the American Legion) at a college. I was so afraid of seeing other guys nude that I would take a shower at 2 AM. I had two roommates, one of whom I think knew I got up to shower. He was very nice and didn't judge.

    I also never used to wear shorts outside of my home, which was sometimes really hard during 100+ºF summer days. I remember a director for my marching band once noted that when we were practicing outside. Only recently have I got over my fear through buying two pairs of shorts (one of which is "too short" at just above my knees, haha!).

    It's kind of ironic that I'm afraid because when I was a kid in elementary school, a few times I would shower with my dad (though still wearing underwear) and think nothing of it. In South Indian culture (due to the hot, humid climate), men are usually shirtless and my dad would often wear a traditional lungi (long sheet wrapped around the waist). So, I don't have much issues being shirtless at home, which I usually am now since the local climate is pretty mild and doesn't require having constant air conditioning.
     
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    Im good just wearing underwear but after that its a little uncomfortable.
     
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    @ Tightrope. Lol, I have no idea why my HS coach broached this other than him knowing that freshman football players might be self conscience about penis size or being around seniors in the showers and might want to skip showering after practice. He was a stickler for us not going home covered in mud, grass and sweat to our parents. I will never forget that quote, tho, what a hoot. He was old school Mississippi fer sure!
     
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    I'm not afraid to show my legs below the knee or my arms up to the shoulder. Anything else just crosses the line and I would flip out or be horrified, one of the two!
    I don't mind seeing other people naked... Which is extremely confusing to me since I'm self-conscious.

    Other than that, I wear a Hoodie everywhere I go since they're comfortable and basically a piece of "armor". Well... That's how I see them anyway.
    (!)
     
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    I have honestly contemplated wearing my day clothes over a morphsuit.

    A paper bag. A burqa. A ninja suit.

    Social anxiety will do things to you. Ninja things.