So i'm ftm trans and i want to come out to my parents, but i'm hesitant to do so. It's not because they're against trans people; i mean, there's a ftm guy who was in my church's youth group and was a part of the last service i went to with them and they are ok with him, but i'm not sure how they'd react to me, their kid, being trans. My sister overheard them talking and according to her they are suspecting me (i dress in hoodies and sweatpants a lot and often get mistaken for a guy by strangers), but apparently, my mom said it's probably a phase since a friend of her friend had a phase of dressing masculine and then later went back to dressing feminine. I want to tell them since i want to go on t and get top surgery and i'm dependent on them for medical care, but i'm scared of being rejected. Am i being too much of a worrywart?