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not caring i was cheated on

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by kenn, Dec 6, 2017.

  1. kenn

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    Me and my boyfriend were dating for about 3 months give or take,i found out that he was cheating on me with a girl. I broke up with him because thats what you suppose to do right? its been awhile since then but recently ive reflected on the incident and something i cant figure out is, why didn't i feel mad/upset/betrayed i mean i dont think that it was because i didn't care about him, i still do and we've been talking about getting back togeather but i want to figure this out before hand.
     
  2. Andrew99

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    You probably did care about him but my guess would be you were probably not head over heels for him. Either that or you just handle situations like that well.

    On the topic of getting back together, it's really up to you, but I recommend you don't. When someone cheats on you there's a 90% chance they will cheat on you again.