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Non-verbal signs of flirting from other girls?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by vyra, May 13, 2017.

  1. vyra

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    I've pretty much delved into each and every: 'how to tell if another girl likes you' advice sites but I'm a little skeptical of them. :confused: I'd really appreciate it if anyone would share some knowledge on lesbian flirting signs that aren't the girl directly saying: "I like you", as I'm pretty dense when it comes to things like this. Thanks!!
     
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    Direct eye contact is a clue (though in my case, I actually avoid eye contact even more when I like someone).
     
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    Yeah, eye contact is a big one! But like you said, some people don't want to make eye contact and avoid it instead. So I'm not sure what to do in those cases
     
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    These are mostly based on my own experiences but I think they apply regardless of gender. Tbh I tend to follow female social expectations when it comes to these things anyway.

    If you have the kind of personality and relationship with the girl where you could initiate a staring contest and it wouldn't be unusual, it's probably a sign if she blushes or acts flustered or her pupils dilate.

    If she makes more physical contact or sits/stands closer to you than she does with other people who she has a similar level of acquaintance with, that could also be a sign. Especially if she starts to go out of her way or change from her usual behavior to get physically closer to you.

    Also if you want to get a little Freudian, consider how often she brings up things related to pairs or relationships, especially if it's a tangent in the conversation. It sounds impractical but I've definitely noticed myself bringing up these topics more around people I like.