Hello Kiddos, this is something that has just subconsciously made a movement in my mind… I might be non-binary (assigned male at birth), I sometimes have disforia about my penis and how I don't want it but I don't want to have it like removed I just don't like to think about it or look at it at times and I just want nothing (no vigina no penis), but at other times I’m fine with it. I also want to have hips but as a birth male teen I don’t. I have experimented with wearing my sisters clothing, dresses, crop tops (even though this is a gender neutral clothing piece… I think...), leg warmers, womens pants/jeans (which i love and were all the time… in public (no one even notices)) and I love to where each of these and it's the same with male targeted clothing. I feel that I could be bigender or even gender fluid… but i need help trying to put a name on my gender. And if anyone has felt the same way about there gender I would love to hear your stories.
Hello pumpkin I am genderfluid I found out when I was 14-15, couple of years ago. It started with dysphoria, someday I would feel awful and hate myself I didn’t understand at first One day I red about genderfluid and it was like “wow that is me” I still feel dysphoric sometimes but I make nice things for me and it feels better Whatever you decide to use or not an etiquette dress like you like and live like you want XOXO
First off, I'm gonna be super stereotypical and tell you that you don't need to know everything right now. It's okay to experiment and not like things. That's cool. Anyway, so I have SO MANY labels for my gender. I go with genderfluid, nonbinary, agender, demiboy, and trans. I'll explain each label in a sec. I use a lot of labels for a few reasons: they all feel true, sometimes people understand one better than the other, and as my gender is not a static thing having many labels takes that into consideration. Okay so here's why I ID as each label listed... Genderfluid: my gender is ever-changing. It isn't constant. It's very, well, fluid. Nonbinary: my definition of nonbinary is when your gender cannot completely/exclusively be defined by the binary genders of "boy" and "girl". This is true for me and a comfy, broad label. Agender: sometimes I'm just really disconnected from the idea of gender. Sometimes it feels suffocating to have a gender. I know that might not make sense but sometimes my brain is just like "NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! WE'RE ALLERGIC TO GENDERRRRRR!" Demiboy: a demiboy is someone who identifies as partially but not completely with being a boy. This is true for me because, though my gender is fluid, I never identify as a woman in any way. I go between "boy", "yes (as in like I feel so much gender)", and "no" as far as genders go. Trans: transgender just means when the doctor slapped your ass they shouted a gender that isn't completely correct. So, yeah, I'm trans. Hope this ramble helped!