So.. When I talk about my gender, my family and friends are universally supportive... They suggest their own gender neutral terms, they ask my pronouns, they really seem like great allies. And then, as soon as I stop talking about it and things go back to normal, it's like I never said anything. I'm "she" "sister" "girl" again. Everything I worked so hard to figure out about myself, that I felt brave for sharing... It all meant jack shit to them. No one cared. And how do I even deal with that? They're not against me. If I say anything, they'll be "for" me again. But if I'm not raising a fuss (because I only have limited energy for fussing, and ultimately would like for there to not be any fuss) it stops mattering. I disappear again. I can't force people to care, so what do I even do...?