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  1. Forlong

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    Hello, I was active on this forum years ago and just recently decided to get back on. Looking forward to hearing and chatting with others who are going through a similar situation.
     
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    Welcome back to EC
     
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    Welcome back. Looking forward to sharing our feelings and desires.
     
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    Welcome back wishing you all the best
     
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    Thank you
     
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    Thank you and looking forward to getting to know more people here.
     
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    Thank you and you as well
     
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    What brings you back?
     
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    Same as before I don't have anyone to talk to about being bisexual, I live in a very small southern town. My husband and I talked about it but I can't unload all the feelings and thoughts on him all the time. I'm still letting him adjust to my being bisexual which he is handling well than I thought.
     
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    That's why I'm here too. My fiance is great about it, he's always known that I am bisexual. But I don't feel like I should talk about it too often. It mostly gets mentioned casually, like the other week he winked at me when he caught me checking out his mate's girlfriend in her bikini. To be honest I wasn't sure if I was looking out of lust or envy.
     
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    Wow same with my husband every time he sees a woman and I look in her direction he asks “ Is that what you like” or says “I see you checking her out”. Sometimes I wish I hadn't told him but it really has helped our relationship.

    It's rare I look at a woman and lust after her unless there's some type of connection. I have to have a conversation and a bond of sorts to be connected in some way. One of the reasons I never really enjoy porn if I don't know them it is hard to get aroused by images. Words are my favorite, why I love books
     
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    Same thing on the closeness. We always have a good laugh just having a coffee and people watching. I've got a pretty high sex drive, and I suppose I've always had a thing for good bodies, I think my brain sort of puts admiration & attraction in the same box? So particularly attractive strangers catch my eye and I suppose I can't help but look. Attractive friends have always been something of a problem for me too, that closeness just makes me more attracted.
     
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    Right!! I don't have many female friends for one because some are just mean girls and second I’m an introverted person so it is hard to talk to people, especially women. I can relate to appreciating someone's body non-sexual. I started bodybuilding 2 years ago and had to stop last year but picked it back up in January. My point is I notice a lot of women's bodies than men's bodies because of how well it's shaped.
     
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    Forlong.....Katrina, it's great to have you back! :old_smile: I hope we can be encouraging and helpful to you!
    .....David :gay_pride_flag:
     
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    Thank you and it feels good to be back
     
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    I'm Bi too you can always talk to me
     
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    Thank you, so many new profiles on EC since I was last here.
     
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    When did you know were Bi
     
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    In my late twenties before my husband and I were married we had been together 2 1/2 years. He left our town and it was the first time I was truly alone so that I could explore. I masturbated the first time not sure what to do and some scene came on TV with 2 girls kissing so I used that and it worked for my first orgasm. Later when my then-boyfriend came home I couldn't have an orgasm unless I was thinking about a woman which was hard to do since I rely heavily on how I feel about someone and not visual stimulation. It took another 8 years before he could give me an orgasm, I came out to him 4 years after that. By then I was emotionally and sexually frustrated, we assumed something was wrong with my libido but I know now it was holding on to the secret of sexuality. I accept I am BI just don't know if I ever want to share that with the world yet.
     
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    Glad to meet another female lifter. I've been weight lifting for a few years now and really enjoy it. I've been a gymnast since I was a young kid and got into running in my teens, it has been hard work putting on muscle and getting stronger but I feel so much better for it, both physically and mentally.
     
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