First of all I am needing to beg for help from anyone willing to help me. Very unhappily married on way to divorce. US Army and Vietnam Veteran. I am struggling with a lifestyle change to bisexual!!! Thank you for allowing me to join your great site and am looking forward to a long and fruitful relationship
Right Field 6…..Hello and a big LGBTQIA+ welcome to Empty Closets! I can remember the first post that I made on EC. I was desperate for help and I got the help that night that I so needed. I hope that we can help you in the same way that I received help. The most important thing to remember about Empty Closets is that we do care about you! We're very glad that you found us here on EC and hope that we can answer questions, give you support and provide a place to vent (as long as it's not violent! ) when that becomes necessary! This is a safe community of loving, caring and very supportive people and we will do our best to help you blend into the community. *****There are 18 different sub-forums here that you can check out, join in the conversations or start your own thread/conversation. When I first joined Empty Closets I was in need of a lot of support and encouragement and I found it here…EC is a safe place. I hope that you'll find good things here too! Folks here will talk to you and share...you don't have to be afraid of asking questions...we're glad to have you! Empty Closets is all about making connections and giving LGBTQ folks a voice when they otherwise don't have one in their day-to-day lives. ****In particular you may want to check out the forum that is titled “Sexual Orientation”, there are people there who may have dealt with some of the same kind of issues that could be challenging you. Some info on how to navigate EC: When you have made at least 10 posts on various threads you will be able to post messages on a member's Profile Page. Just click on a member's Avatar Picture and then click on "Profile Page" in the dialogue box that pops up. You'll then be on their Profile Page and there will be a box that says: "Write Something”. When you have been on EC for a few weeks and have made at least 50 posts on various forums, you can apply for Full Membership. Only A Full Member can send Private Messages (PM) and then only to other Full Members and share personal contact info. Right now you can only send a PM to a Staff Member as that is always possible. Here is a quote from the Full Membership information forum: *****To be eligible you must be a member of Empty Closets for a minimum of two weeks, and have a minimum of 50 posts. These posts must be across numerous forums (Fun & Games does not contribute to post count), and consistently posted across a minimum of two weeks. You wouldn't be eligible, for example, if you registered, had no activity for two weeks, and then returned to post 50 times on your 14th day of membership. *****Well, as I said, we're very glad you found us! If you have any questions at all, you can send me a Private Message as you can always send a staff member a Private Message. …..David
Thank you for your kind and inspiring message you are just the type of man I would like to meet in person. I am looking forward to more interaction with you!!!
Welcome to Empty closets. Sadly I have never been married before, but I will see if I can help you in any way possible.
Welcome to EC you're not alone. I helped my mother through her nasty divorce so we could escape an abusive family life. So I know how it goes. It sucked but we are all happier now.
Welcome. Im sure it’s not easy going through a divorce. I’m married and hope I never go through one but the odds say I will. I’m sure papers will be served if she finds out that I’m bi and currently serving a man twice my age. I’m 23 and from youth have been attracted to men’s packages. Different shapes and sizes turn me on. I just gave myself to a man a couple of weeks ago and have had 3 events with him. My wife is a nurse and goes back to work tomorrow night. My new friend invited me for dinner and I will stay with him for the night. I love serving a man and desire to try new men soon. I just have to find the right one. For years I struggled with my desire for men. For me the right man approached me and I gave myself to him. He said all the right things. The struggle is over. I’m bi and I can’t go back. In your situation it may be best for you to find a younger partner. Your military and age would tell me you’re more dominant. I’m submissive so I desire older men. Someone out their is desiring and older man. Perhaps when I age I will desire younger men. I encourage you to go for it.
Welcome to EC. I May you not travel on the path of divorce Its not good space I cannot wait for mine to finish
Welcome! I'm new to this site also, and I hope it's a fruitful place for both of us. Like you, I'm married to a woman, but my sexual desires have leaned almost exclusively MM for many years now. I've yet to take that next step to actually meeting another man for intimacy yet. I have a feeling this will be a very supportive, and welcoming place for us in here.
I’m in the same boat. I’m married with kids and have the desire to be with a man again. I did however have the pleasure to experience being with a guy for about 5 years before marriage. I was a kid 12-17 years we were together secretly. Good time. Wish it was back.
It happens when it happens. If it’s meant to be then you’ll know. There is no rush. Please just enjoy life and let it all fall into place don’t rush off looking for just anyone. Trust me you need to establish a friendship and trust, that’s super important.
